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BBpants
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:15pm |
Most of the time when I see a black man with a white woman, his clothes are out dated and he seems corny as hell. I'm glad they are taking corny ass men like this off the market. I sure as hell don't want to be with them
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why don't cornballs date cornballs?
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because everyone wants someone they perceive as "better"...word to catfish.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:37pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
because everyone wants someone they perceive as "better"...word to catfish. |
I agree with this
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:40pm |
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why don't cornballs date cornballs?
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self-hate
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:41pm |
Limalady wrote:
SamoneLenior wrote:
why don't cornballs date cornballs?
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I think it is more male driven. Most men want a woman that other men fawn over. They want the beauty queen/cheerleader. That desire doesn't change, because a man is corny, I guess. The weather man I dated was corny as hell though.  Found him: And he was a diehard republican.  Oh the memories. ETA: I don't mind putting him out, since he was a douche.
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that's quite a pointy head he had
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:42pm |
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I don't think anyone ever acknowledges that the disliking of the Black man/White woman pairing from Black women also stems from Black women being disappointed in Black men
I think, on a certain level, Black men are more self-loathing than Black women. Men, in particular, are less likely to resolved their self-loathing feelings than women are and I think this is also true for Black men.
It seems like when Black women are self-loathing, they seek to get rid of their hatred by learning to love their image even more or improve it. Black men seem to buy their image or wear it on their arms
idk if that makes sense but I always feel that some of the "stank" faces bw give is because they view bm "stepping out" as a sign of lack of dignity
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I don't think it's all that deep.  Geesh, why does anything outside of the 'little black box' .... mean they are self-hating. That term is a catchall all ..used for just about anything these days .. so now it doesn't mean a thing anymore. Geesh some Black men date White women .. because sometimes opposites attract. DUH! Period. This is the exact reason why some Black women date White men. Of course, some Black men or Black women date Whites .. just because are just open-minded, happen to meet somone and are not too intimidated by the people in their lives to .... check it out. Everyone is not weak-willed.  I really don't know why Black folks obsess over this topic .. it's just pushes people more and more into this direction. Work on yourselves and stay out of other people's bedroom because there is nothing you can do to control other people.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:44pm |
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somebody must've sprinkled magic dust in here
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:45pm |
dreamz wrote:
that's quite a pointy head he had
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Yeah, I never noticed that before. 
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 10:45pm |
Limalady wrote:
SamoneLenior wrote:
why don't cornballs date cornballs?
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I think it is more male driven. Most men want a woman that other men fawn over. They want the beauty queen/cheerleader. That desire doesn't change, because a man is corny, I guess. The weather man I dated was corny as hell though.  Found him: And he was a diehard republican.  Oh the memories. ETA: I don't mind putting him out, since he was a douche.
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LMAO...he has douche written all over his smile. why did it end?
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