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Alias_Avi 
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Ok, the video is hella funny
Not ignorant at all. Good discussion
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:01pm |
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*not watching* |
& no
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Limalady
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:02pm |
BeatriceBean wrote:
I'm sure that some are. The conversation isn't about wanting to be white...nor is jealousy necessarily about wanting to be someone, as much as coveting what that person has. In this instance, it's white women having the favor of black men. |
Great summary. I'm still not jealous, not even of White woman privilege. I feel more accomplished, because I have to overcome society's views and expectations of me. It makes my accomplishments more special. 
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:03pm |
babyk94 wrote:
I'm not but, I think that some are lol |
yep.
i watched some of this video yesterday...i want to see pix of their blk ex's and bf's.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:04pm |
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Funny enough I went to Dallas a few days ago and in the mall I saw a
whole lotta black menz with white womez. They all had kids. It seems
interracial marriage is huge in Texas.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:04pm |
BeatriceBean wrote:
I'm sure that some are.
The conversation isn't about wanting to be white...nor is jealousy necessarily about wanting to be someone, as much as coveting what that person has. In this instance, it's white women having the favor of black men. |
Good point...I am not at all jealous of white women. On occasion I become very disappointed in some of the black men who put them on a pedestal while putting down black women.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:04pm |
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Oh and that video was good too
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:08pm |
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No- I'm very proud to be a black woman and I will age better than them.
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:10pm |
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I don't think anyone ever acknowledges that the disliking of the Black man/White woman pairing from Black women also stems from Black women being disappointed in Black men
I think, on a certain level, Black men are more self-loathing than Black women. Men, in particular, are less likely to resolved their self-loathing feelings than women are and I think this is also true for Black men.
It seems like when Black women are self-loathing, they seek to get rid of their hatred by learning to love their image even more or improve it. Black men seem to buy their image or wear it on their arms
idk if that makes sense but I always feel that some of the "stank" faces bw give is because they view bm "stepping out" as a sign of lack of dignity
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Posted: Jan 09 2013 at 12:16pm |
I just don't care anymore what black men do anymore (outside my family). I see black men everyday with white/asian/mexican.. insert xyz race here and it just doesn't bother me anymore. We had this discussion over the weekend, somehow we moved tom Djando to interracial dating.. odd A friend of mine swears that black men hate themselves (feels inferior) and would rather have little mixed babies that look nothing like them to feel more accepted.
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