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**Sk!TtLeS B** 
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 Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:41pm |
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what happened in here?? summery?
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-OP asked if anyone was an only child -some people said yes -OP is quiet -some people said yes and that they were worried about life without their parents -OP posts something about siblings forcing one another to deal with the death of their parents on their own -some people said yes and that they were kinda lonely as kids -OP posts that people with siblings get lonely -some people said no, but mentioned that there is distance between them and their sibs -OP is silent -some people said no and said they'd be lost without their siblings -OP posts examples of siblings doing fcked up things to eachother -people notice something in the milk aint clean
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:51pm |
**Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:
CherryCola wrote:
Please enlighten me how I have refused to acknowledge some else's experience as not being valid, in a respectful way, minus the name-calling, though?
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</span> Why did come into this thread with the intention of debate? If people were lonely as children without siblings, you posting studies or quoting anecdotes of people with siblings who had lonely childhoods doesnt change their reality. You saying that people could be distanced from their siblings as adults doesnt change the fact that some people without siblings are worried about their emotional state when their parents ultimately pass. <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Likewise, you saying that it's possible for siblings to be funny style/shifty/aint sh*t isnt going to change the fact that some people cant imagine life without their siblings. </span> <span style="line-height: 1.4;">
</span> <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Nobody came in here attacking single childhood, they came in here and posted their personal experiences. YOU however were posting links and sharing stories as if to prove them and their experiences wrong. </span> |
ITA! Constantly finding discrepancies in EVERY opinion not like yours to the point of nausea gets draining........REAL quick!
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:52pm |
**Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:
CherryCola wrote:
Please enlighten me how I have refused to acknowledge some else's experience as not being valid, in a respectful way, minus the name-calling, though?
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Why did come into this thread with the intention of debate? If people were lonely as children without siblings, you posting studies or quoting anecdotes of people with siblings who had lonely childhoods doesnt change their reality. You saying that people could be distanced from their siblings as adults doesnt change the fact that some people without siblings are worried about their emotional state when their parents ultimately pass. Likewise, you saying that it's possible for siblings to be funny style/shifty/aint sh*t isnt going to change the fact that some people cant imagine life without their siblings.
Nobody came in here attacking single childhood, they came in here and posted their personal experiences. YOU however were posting links and sharing stories as if to prove them and their experiences wrong. |
I didn't come in here to debate or to change anything. If someone mentioned they were lonely because they're an only child, I mentioned that you can have siblings and be lonely as well. Not changing, just stating. If someone stated they were worried about parents because the lack of siblings, I mentioned that having siblings doesn't change that since plenty of people with siblings complain of no help. Okay, you're right. It won't change, but denying that siblings aren't always great won't change that, either.
And I wasn't proving them wrong. I was stating that sometimes it's a good thing and sometimes it's not.
Edited by CherryCola - Jan 30 2013 at 8:53pm
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:52pm |
dreamz wrote:
Pity, please imsert our latest nene gif, please and thank you.
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:55pm |
Az~Maverick wrote:
**Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:
CherryCola wrote:
Please enlighten me how I have refused to acknowledge some else's experience as not being valid, in a respectful way, minus the name-calling, though?
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Why did come into this thread with the intention of debate? If people were lonely as children without siblings, you posting studies or quoting anecdotes of people with siblings who had lonely childhoods doesnt change their reality. You saying that people could be distanced from their siblings as adults doesnt change the fact that some people without siblings are worried about their emotional state when their parents ultimately pass. <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Likewise, you saying that it's possible for siblings to be funny style/shifty/aint sh*t isnt going to change the fact that some people cant imagine life without their siblings. </span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Nobody came in here attacking single childhood, they came in here and posted their personal experiences. YOU however were posting links and sharing stories as if to prove them and their experiences wrong. </span> |
ITA!
Constantly finding discrepancies in EVERY opinion not like yours to the point of nausea gets draining........REAL quick! |
Okay. Just ignore it.........REAL quick.
Edited by CherryCola - Jan 30 2013 at 8:57pm
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 8:57pm |
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OP I think you just did too much... you had them links ready, lol!
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 9:00pm |
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OP I think you just did too much... you had them links ready, lol! |
I guess so. Dang. lol
I didn't think some people would get fighting mad over some links. I've never had this kinda reaction before.
Edited by CherryCola - Jan 30 2013 at 9:01pm
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 9:03pm |
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Guuuuuuuurl, you joined in 2009, you aint new.... BHM will curse each other out even if they have the same damn opinion...
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 9:06pm |
1 sister 1 brother 2-parents that have only me to take care of them!
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Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 9:07pm |
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Guuuuuuuurl, you joined in 2009, you aint new.... BHM will curse each other out even if they have the same damn opinion... |
Yeah. I've been on here for a while. Although I kinda come and go, but I didn't know some would be upset by something like that. I could understand if I cursed someone out or called them names. I guess I've been enlightened. lol
Unfortunately, it seems this thread has been turned into something else when that was not my intent.
JamCaygirl, thanks for responding in a respectful manner.
Edited by CherryCola - Jan 30 2013 at 9:11pm
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