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Jealousy is natural but the level of jealousy can vary... if its a fly by night thing Id address it and hopefully if thats a good friend you move on. However there are some ppl who take jealousy to a toxic level and those are the ones you simply remove from ya circle.
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I don't have any jealous bestfriends. Not to my knowledge anyway.
 
The minute I figure out they are jealous and whatnot .. I drop them because I know from experience that they will never STOP being jealous.
 
They will contrive to do you some harm ... or wish bad things on you etc ... if you let them by keeping them in your life.
 
 
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

for example, your bestfriend isn't happy with their current place in life. they don't have a job and are going back to school and surviving on loans.
 
meanwhile you just upgraded to a nice crib, just bought a luxury vehicle and are pretty modest about it all. when you tell your friend about the car their response isn't congratulations but its "you know that was my dream car, right?" in regards to your recent success, they instead make a subliminal post on social networks about how people(you) forgot where they came from and.
 
thats just a brief summary tbh.


How is wanting nice things for yourself forgetting where you came from? Tell them to step their game up or shut up
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Yes. Me and her hating @ss are no longer friends... A lot of things happen this year, some good, some bad. So much so that I cant wait till 2013 is over! The moment I decided to finally let her in (Like its been years and I'm a very private person) she runs her mouth. The heffa was a liability and couldn't keep her mouth closed. Had to clip her... Like I did it that day and haven't looked back.
To bad she's my cousin, so I'm sure I'll see her eventually.

Do yourself a favor and clip whoever it is.

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that butter bitch!
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Yeah but I still love her tho....one day she will be fine.
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Originally posted by Sleek Sleek wrote:

Yeah but I still love her tho....one day she will be fine.
Awww!Smile
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Yes and we are no longer friends because the relationship became toxic.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Your friend could be feeling down about not achieving what you haveand seeing the long road ahead of him to get where you are is depressing for him. Jealousy doesn't mean he's not a good friend just means he's jealous for right now.

Talk to him ask him what's going on, if he's upfront with you, encourage him buy him a icecream cone and tell him cut that sh*t out. Talk face to face!
I agree Herman..

Sometimes people can't see what they are doing..and just need a gentle reminder
You do not agree with me smh cyber bully *reports*
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