First off .. it is never a good idea to get involved with guys a work. (Don't sh** where you eat)
Second .. the minute you found out he was also sleeping with 3 other girls at the office ... that meant you are dealing with a dog and ... you should have been rid of him at that moment. (Readers, take note: when you find out a guy is cheating and lying .. it will never end. Never, so end it.)
That would have saved you from being in the f*** up situation you are in today with this loser that is just making a fool out of you.
If he is still living with you - this is my advice.
- One day when if is out - have all the locks changed
- Put all this stuff in a plastic bag outside the house with a note on it saying 'get the f*** out'
- Have an order of protection from the police against him so that he cannot approach you.
You need to do whatever you can to distance yourself from him .. because the next step is that he will start abusing you.
Get him out.
If it is not your place .. you need to pack up and leave immediately .. if not sooner. Never see him again. Simple.
Edited by Becky - Nov 11 2012 at 5:13pm