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It doesn't matter that you said sorry, you KNOW you didn't mean it. Wink See you pull up the shade like your name is Hunter Douglas without really doing anything. 

Say things like Hey girl we going to Salad Express for lunch wanna go?Smile See how I did that?  I work with a bunch of crazed women black and white, I say a prayer everyday before I step in cause they try you.  I have bills, chilren and hair to buy, no time for that. 

Especially since the people frown upon weed selling but that is another thread  for another day. 

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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

It doesn't matter that you said sorry, you KNOW you didn't mean it. Wink See you pull up the shade like your name is Hunter Douglas without really doing anything. 

Say things like Hey girl we going to Salad Express for lunch wanna go?Smile See how I did that?  I work with a bunch of crazed women black and white, I say a prayer everyday before I step in cause they try you.  I have bills, chilren and hair to buy, no time for that. 

Especially since the people frown upon weed selling but that is another thread  for another day. 


...I had to Google Hunter Douglas Embarrassed
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Dear **Insert supervisor name**,

There was an incident that occurred on ________. I made a simple comment regarding how the lack of physical activity at work could cause one to gain weight. The comment was not directed towards anyone, nor did it imply that anyone was overweight.

I don't believe in name-calling in the workplace and I would never put a fellow co-worker down. As someone who's struggled with weight issues, I am a bit offended that my words and message were misconstrued and subsequently embellished into a personal attack.

**insert professional closing argument here**

Eta melikey's suggestion: If I offended anyone, I apologize as it was not my intention.

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely,

ABC/XYZ

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If I offended someone, I apologize, and none of that sorry if I offended you mess. That's extremely immature.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Sleek Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 10:09am
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Dear **Insert supervisor name**,

There was an incident that occurred on ________. I made a simple comment regarding how the lack of physical activity at work could cause one to gain weight. The comment was not directed towards anyone, nor did it imply that anyone was overweight.

I don't believe in name-calling in the workplace and I would never put a fellow co-worker down. As someone who's struggled with weight issues, I am a bit offended that my words and message were misconstrued and subsequently embellished into a personal attack.

**insert professional closing argument here**

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely,

ABC/XYZ
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I tried to update the op, but it didn't present the option

Update: first thing this morning she walked up to me, infront of another coworker and said, "sorry for being so sensitive." I said thank u, and u should know that I would never say that about anyone.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote creole booty Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 10:16am
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

If I offended someone, I apologize, and none of that sorry if I offended you mess. That's extremely immature.


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I was having a moment
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And now she's doing a part of my job without being asked. She just walked passed me and told me she was helping. Mind u I'm not doing anything, so helping is actually doing right now.ny manager doesnt care.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 10:24am
Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

Dear **Insert supervisor name**,

There was an incident that occurred on ________. I made a simple comment regarding how the lack of physical activity at work could cause one to gain weight. The comment was not directed towards anyone, nor did it imply that anyone was overweight.

I don't believe in name-calling in the workplace and I would never put a fellow co-worker down. As someone who's struggled with weight issues, I am a bit offended that my words and message were misconstrued and subsequently embellished into a personal attack.

**insert professional closing argument here**

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely,

ABC/XYZ

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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

And now she's doing a part of my job without being asked. She just walked passed me and told me she was helping. Mind u I'm not doing anything, so helping is actually doing right now.ny manager doesnt care.


NO ! Do not let her do any part of your work, it will turn into "Creole doesn't do any work, she just sits/stands around".
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