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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^^ If she don't get the results she want you know she will go over his head. CryCryCry She only told him because in they mind all black men lovedded the white womens even when they look like sausage stuffed in pork casing underneath them Flowery dresses they get from the Dress Barn.Ouch,  they like to top off with a cardigan that is slightly too small and they always pulling closed with a wedge shoe. I assume they are sturdier to carry excess volume. 

girl u aint neva lied....i got stories, but i aint finna type them out Sleepy
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U r right. Ur absolutely right. I'm going to b quiet, and stand in this one spot. Technically, I can stand in this one spot all day and remove myself from being social, if that makes sense. No one will think anything is wrong because my job entails standing anyway.

But, I see how it could backfire, definitely.

One of the managers got me hired here. It's a good basic job that pays too well for the amount of work I actually do, so I really want to stay here. I can't believe this got this deep. It really didn't have to b.
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don't apologize...
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and then she did this hot mess of accusing u calling her fat and then when u don[t include her in certain activities she'll probably accuse you of being discriminatory against her cause she is whatever...


like a child...."not including me in their reindeer games"..lol...


damn if u do and damn if u don't Creole...













damn if u do and damn if u don't Creole
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

U r right. Ur absolutely right. I'm going to b quiet, and stand in this one spot. Technically, I can stand in this one spot all day and remove myself from being social, if that makes sense. No one will think anything is wrong because my job entails standing anyway.

But, I see how it could backfire, definitely.

One of the managers got me hired here. It's a good basic job that pays too well for the amount of work I actually do, so I really want to stay here. I can't believe this got this deep. It really didn't have to b.
 
It will most likely blow over.
 
But if you're normally social, be social. If you normally move around then continue to move around. Don't lead anyone to believe that this has affected you.
 
Don't let this or her be a factor in your life or your performance.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:



Ok I'm done ranting, I really need to apologize.



You don't need to apologize. She is overly sensitive and it is not your fault. The first thing I would have said to the white manager when she pulled this bs that she shouldn't be crying would be "well, if I were crying because of similar comment, would you step up for me as well? Even though the person told you that he/she did not in any moment called her fat?"

I call this bullsh!t. The girl is a train wreck. Why the hell do you cry because of someone who wants to be fit?


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What's funny is they all just congregated around my spot (including the 2 managers) talking about randomness.

@BBean I'm about to rotate around though like I normally would. I keep saying I'm not as mad anymore, but jeez I was heated earlier.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

What's funny is they all just congregated around my spot (including the 2 managers) talking about randomness.

@BBean I'm about to rotate around though like I normally would. I keep saying I'm not as mad anymore, but jeez I was heated earlier.


Man I seen you before Creole, you're a bad bish. That girl must really feel like shiet over there looking like Quasimodo. I hope every thing goes well for you. 

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thank u.
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40 something y.o. becky got reprimanded for not submitting some docs on time. Her supervisor (black) came up to her inquiring about why they weren't submitted by the deadline. She initially got smart with him, and blamed it on another coworker saying that he didn't give her the information she needed...blah blah blah. The supervisor basically came back asking why someone would need to give you information that you can find yourself? (I was cheering on the inside at this point). He pulled out her write-up and that's when the tears came.

She said she was crying because the supervisor belittled her made her feel like she was stupid. Her ass was making a scene and luckily there weren't too many ppl in the office today.

I'm sitting there smh...he wasn't being smart or condescending, just stern. Her ass was being sarcastic until she saw that paper, then she tried to flip it and displace the blame on her supervisor. What's wrong with these ppl?

I heard the whole thing unfold and I was sitting there like

I'm sorry you had to deal w/the BS OP.
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