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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i was about to say some ignorant ish.. 



i know youre right jewels.. but it can be hard to turn the other cheek.. i used to be better at it i think. 

i hope this all calms down and she gets some bad karma.. 
as hard as it is.. dont let her succeed in messing up you job. 
id still get her when i could though 




I won't. I'm on operation brown nose right now. I surely asked both managers why she's been with the same customers for 2 hours. I may have mentioned how she's the slowest one in the store. They may have agreed with me. I may have had lunch with one manager. Oh yes.
 
Pace yourself. Don't do too much too soon because they've already established this fat white woman as "nice" and somebody is looking to establish you as the bully. And as a black woman, trust me it will be very easy to paint you that way. While it may feel good to do these things it certainly looks like a backfire waiting to happen. This type of behavior will stunt your growth within the organization and will be ammo to help get you fired.
 
Be cordial, be polite, be assertive, but most of all be professional. When you meet with the manager, don't discuss her unless she's brought up. If she is, keep it short and sweet. Remind them that you wanted everyone to work out, not just her.
 
Before you do anything to shoot yourself in the foot please take a moment to breathe and think first. And this is from the COO of Hotheads Inc.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

^^^ If she don't get the results she want you know she will go over his head. CryCryCry She only told him because in they mind all black men lovedded the white womens even when they look like sausage stuffed in pork casing underneath them Flowery dresses they get from the Dress Barn.Ouch,  they like to top off with a cardigan that is slightly too small and they always pulling closed with a wedge shoe. I assume they are sturdier to carry excess volume. 

girl u aint neva lied....i got stories, but i aint finna type them out Sleepy
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U r right. Ur absolutely right. I'm going to b quiet, and stand in this one spot. Technically, I can stand in this one spot all day and remove myself from being social, if that makes sense. No one will think anything is wrong because my job entails standing anyway.

But, I see how it could backfire, definitely.

One of the managers got me hired here. It's a good basic job that pays too well for the amount of work I actually do, so I really want to stay here. I can't believe this got this deep. It really didn't have to b.
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don't apologize...
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and then she did this hot mess of accusing u calling her fat and then when u don[t include her in certain activities she'll probably accuse you of being discriminatory against her cause she is whatever...


like a child...."not including me in their reindeer games"..lol...


damn if u do and damn if u don't Creole...













damn if u do and damn if u don't Creole
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

U r right. Ur absolutely right. I'm going to b quiet, and stand in this one spot. Technically, I can stand in this one spot all day and remove myself from being social, if that makes sense. No one will think anything is wrong because my job entails standing anyway.

But, I see how it could backfire, definitely.

One of the managers got me hired here. It's a good basic job that pays too well for the amount of work I actually do, so I really want to stay here. I can't believe this got this deep. It really didn't have to b.
 
It will most likely blow over.
 
But if you're normally social, be social. If you normally move around then continue to move around. Don't lead anyone to believe that this has affected you.
 
Don't let this or her be a factor in your life or your performance.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:



Ok I'm done ranting, I really need to apologize.



You don't need to apologize. She is overly sensitive and it is not your fault. The first thing I would have said to the white manager when she pulled this bs that she shouldn't be crying would be "well, if I were crying because of similar comment, would you step up for me as well? Even though the person told you that he/she did not in any moment called her fat?"

I call this bullsh!t. The girl is a train wreck. Why the hell do you cry because of someone who wants to be fit?


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What's funny is they all just congregated around my spot (including the 2 managers) talking about randomness.

@BBean I'm about to rotate around though like I normally would. I keep saying I'm not as mad anymore, but jeez I was heated earlier.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

What's funny is they all just congregated around my spot (including the 2 managers) talking about randomness.

@BBean I'm about to rotate around though like I normally would. I keep saying I'm not as mad anymore, but jeez I was heated earlier.


Man I seen you before Creole, you're a bad bish. That girl must really feel like shiet over there looking like Quasimodo. I hope every thing goes well for you. 

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thank u.
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