another was i wrong and how to fix it

Ok. White girl. Just putting it out there. I suggested to 4 different coworkers yesterday, 2 being female, 1 black, one white, that we workout as a team once a week because "working here can make u fat." All, at least I thought all, agreed. I'm fit, I feel good, I look good, it's been a long journey and I want to stay this way. Plus, I like my coworkers. So we said yeah lets do a snowball fight or something.

Today, I get pulled into the office because the ww was crying. I'm like, why? My black male manager says I called her Fat. I'm like bulls.hit. I had the same convo with 4 people and none of them cried. They said she has low SELF esteem. I'm like ok so what's the problem with suggesting a group workout? And my white female assistant manager says, "Laura is so nice, she shouldn't b crying." I was like, whatever, hit dogs holler and instead of being mad she should b motivated. I went in on her because I was mad. Then I said I would apologize FOR OFFENDING her, but I need a Minute to figure out what to say.

So, no, I'm not sorry, but I'm willing to accept fault. I can become sorry if I'm wrong. I honestly did not call her fat. She's married to a weird black dude who loves her quasimodo hunchback ass.I never talked about her before, but now I'm going in. If she felt any kind of way, she shouldve spoken to me to clarify. her.

Ok I'm done ranting, I really need to apologize.

white women love drama even if they have to make it up.

I would say, "I apologize if you feel I've offended you"

Edited by Katrenia - Jan 11 2014 at 10:13am

I wouldn't apologize for shyt. What you said was not at all offensive. She need to take her lil sensitive ass for some long brisk walks. And now that you see that she's unstable, you need to keep your conversations with her strictly work related. 

She sounds like someone who posts here.

I'm no help, I would've laughed in the white womens face