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it aint nothing to get pannies in a jumble over, side eye worthy, maybe.
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That's like saying a person isn't that big.....it's not even that serious
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

she obviously didnt mean anything with that 'you're not even very dark' comment. 
if someone is insecure about, "their very dark skin" and i didnt think they were very dark.. id tell them. 
doesnt mean I'm saying that if she was… it would make her less attractive. 

ppl are so extra right now i swear.. the holidays has everyone on edge or somethin 


But in a way isnt that perpetuating the idea that being very dark is a bad thing. The "compliment" becomes your lighter than you think....so dont be upset.


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yea @e
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Dark butts be extra sensitive......y'all would side eye Jesus........

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 03 2013 at 9:18pm
Po thang done effed up trying to give advice.LOL


She could have phrased that a lot better.
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it is what white folk in the slavery day used to say to make themselves feel better about being around us...
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Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

it is what white folk in the slavery day used to say to make themselves feel better about being around us...

would you mind elaborating?
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because of how it was worded.. i don't think so GK. 
i think this is being dissected a little too hard 
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if a really light person was like, "omg i gotta tan.. I can't stand being really pale like this, its ugly and makes me ugly" 
and i was like, "you're not even that pale… but your really light skin and you are pretty" 

it wouldn't be a problem. 

no, angela didnt need to say it and i get what you're saying.. but in the context.. i don't think it should be seen as offensive. cus it was specifically about being 'very' dark. 

eta: 
if it was said in a different way… i completely agree.. 
i can't think of a good example. 

like, "shes ugly.. she's dark" 
"well.. she's not even that dark.. but yea she's pretty and skin shouldn't matter blah blah" 

they're diff imo 


Edited by coconess - Dec 03 2013 at 9:35pm
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