| nitabug wrote:|
ii hate to say it but I don't think you are done.
how many events do you go to, only to be "surprised" that your other friends onvited him or let him in...
This was an event I hosted with the help of my friend. My friend invited him and I initially had my qualms but the thing is, I've never let the presence of someone I am not on good terms stop me from having fun. Not even an ex. So I decided this event was going to be positive and fun and I was just going to mind my business and as long as he minded his, it's all good. And he did at first. ...At first.
I feel like giving up the opportunity to have fun with beloved friends of mine over some fu
ckwit is such a waste. But honestly, now that I feel this stressed, that's changing.
As for being done.. well.. since I ended the friendship, I have never initiated contact with him. I've never felt a need to. (edit: I guess except in the OP but that was literally it) The most I do in regards to him is vent my emotions as I have done in this thread and that's just for releasing stress. He is the one who takes direct action and initiates contact. And when I do engage in contact, it's me metaphorically setting up a brick wall. How does that constitute me not being done? If anything, it implies he
is not done with me.
Edited by Midna - Aug 17 2013 at 7:49pm