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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Nisha Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 21 2013 at 10:55pm
Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Small update:

"I wanted to give you the satisfaction of knowing that I ate the absolute fuck out of my words. I thought you'd miss me more than I would miss you. But it's the other way around. We're really never going to be friends again, and I can't believe it."

I did reply.. I replied, "Who is this?" to rub salt in his wounds. 

 
A. That had to hurt. LOL
B. I've done that before.  WinkEvil Smile
 
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Ugh...

Ladies, I got an update. It'll be the last one, I'm honestly exhausted.

He won't leave me alone.

Yesterday, I hosted a gathering for a dear friend of mine who was leaving and we all wanted to surround him with love and positivity. My ex-friend attended. I did not invite him, but he is a friend of the person the gathering was for so I decided not to care. I'm just hanging with friends, laughing, and having a good time, he's minding his business so it's all peaceful. We all head to another friend's house to continue the fun. After taking a dip in the pool, I check my phone and its from a number I don't know. I ask loudly whose number is it and he immediately claims it. This dude texted me talking about he thinks one of the guests is a skinhead. -.-

I tell this dude to delete my number already and I don't want to associate with him and he REFUSES! He texts me some "how could you leave me?" crap like I'm supposed to be committed, he knows he took me for granted, he's sorry his drug addiction has changed him (I know he smokes weed and I heard rumors he's using heavier drugs, but my god, I never expected him to confirm it), if we're friends again things will be different, and I tell him he's going to have to move on. My how tables turn. He would NOT stop texting me yesterday!

Some time later, I head to the bathroom, and after finishing my porcelain bowl business and cleansing my hands, I exit and there he is right at the door waiting for me, smh!

I glance at him and walk away thinking he wanted to use it next and he's calling my name. I turn and not even glare, but just give him the most stoic stare and he can't even look in my eyes. He didn't say anything so I turned and walk away and this dude has the audacity to GRAB ME!

I quickly freed myself and went Stacker Pentecost on him like
 

He gwaan and tell me, "You said you'd never leave me!" like I'm his fucking girlfriend! I said no I did not and told him yet again he is to delete my number and refrain from contacting me and walked off.

Thankfully, he went home.

Ladies and gents of BHM, I cannot be his friend anymore due to all the drama and disrespect from him. My pride simply will not allow me. But I'm feeling conflicted because it's obvious the dude is hurting and is hurting bad. I could see the pain on his face. His eyes were red and a bit teary but I don't know if that's from crying or him getting high, SMH!!

The conflict isn't compelling me to be his friend again, everything is beyond repair and I won't even bother. But I suppose seeing his stress in person has me a little shaken.

*Sigh* I'm tired. I'm gonna go eat anything with Nutella on it.
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He is crazy af. I hope you are telling your mutual friends about his behavior b/c ppl need to know
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Girl, just remember:

Remixes are for the radio. 
It seems to me that he has successfully pushed just about all of his friends away, and, because he remembers how much bullsh*t you put up with through the course of your relationship he wants to come running back. This friendship, just like the last one, will undoubtedly be one sided. 


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Why were you still trying to be his friend? By doing so you may in in his warped mind be sending mix signals. Get a restraining order and a new number. Asap....shh like this can turn for the worse fast... and to many times.... folks underestimate how crazy folks can get.
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Ignore him for good.

He sounds unstable and nuts!


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote OrriannaRose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 16 2013 at 11:47pm
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

But I'm feeling conflicted because it's obvious the dude is hurting and is hurting bad. I could see the pain on his face. His eyes were red and a bit teary but I don't know if that's from crying or him getting high, SMH!!


Girl fCensoredk his pain!!! Get a restraining order against his unstable a$$ and be done with it! And change your number asap.
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You better be careful....When a niqqa starts crying, they start to do some crazy stuff Confused
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 17 2013 at 1:49am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Why were you still trying to be his friend? By doing so you may in in his warped mind be sending mix signals. Get a restraining order and a new number. Asap....shh like this can turn for the worse fast... and to many times.... folks underestimate how crazy folks can get.


Where does it say I was? I don't want to be his friend and haven't tried to since I ended the friendship in May.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 17 2013 at 1:51am
Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

But I'm feeling conflicted because it's obvious the dude is hurting and is hurting bad. I could see the pain on his face. His eyes were red and a bit teary but I don't know if that's from crying or him getting high, SMH!!


Girl fCensoredk his pain!!! Get a restraining order against his unstable a$$ and be done with it! And change your number asap.



That's likely the plan! This dude won't leave me be! I feel bad that he's hurting because this is somebody I once held in positive regard, but then all the memories of the bullcrap and disrespect quickly snuff out my sympathy.
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