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Why were you still trying to be his friend? By doing so you may in in his warped mind be sending mix signals. Get a restraining order and a new number. Asap....shh like this can turn for the worse fast... and to many times.... folks underestimate how crazy folks can get.
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Ignore him for good.

He sounds unstable and nuts!


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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

But I'm feeling conflicted because it's obvious the dude is hurting and is hurting bad. I could see the pain on his face. His eyes were red and a bit teary but I don't know if that's from crying or him getting high, SMH!!


Girl fCensoredk his pain!!! Get a restraining order against his unstable a$$ and be done with it! And change your number asap.
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You better be careful....When a niqqa starts crying, they start to do some crazy stuff Confused
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 17 2013 at 1:49am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Why were you still trying to be his friend? By doing so you may in in his warped mind be sending mix signals. Get a restraining order and a new number. Asap....shh like this can turn for the worse fast... and to many times.... folks underestimate how crazy folks can get.


Where does it say I was? I don't want to be his friend and haven't tried to since I ended the friendship in May.
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Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

But I'm feeling conflicted because it's obvious the dude is hurting and is hurting bad. I could see the pain on his face. His eyes were red and a bit teary but I don't know if that's from crying or him getting high, SMH!!


Girl fCensoredk his pain!!! Get a restraining order against his unstable a$$ and be done with it! And change your number asap.



That's likely the plan! This dude won't leave me be! I feel bad that he's hurting because this is somebody I once held in positive regard, but then all the memories of the bullcrap and disrespect quickly snuff out my sympathy.
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Girl, just remember:

Remixes are for the radio. 
It seems to me that he has successfully pushed just about all of his friends away, and, because he remembers how much bullsh*t you put up with through the course of your relationship. This friendship, just like the last one, will undoubtedly be one sided. 


Oh yeah, he's basically isolated himself now. Gkisses, I think I understand what you mean by trying to be his friend.

Looking back, I stayed for a LOOOOOOOOOOOT of bull. I don't know where he got that I said I'd never leave him or what situation would compel me to say that, but if he had that in his head that I'm some kind of committed friend, that's probably why he did all that stupid sh*t.

'I can do this and that but she's not going anywhere.'



I even reminded this dude that there is literally no difference between what the friendship devolved to and how it is now- us not being friends. And that fact is true! We didn't talk anymore! He'd literally only call me to ask for a ride! Hell, even our mutual friends, he'd only hang out with to ditch.

This dude doesn't miss me. He misses the concept of me. He misses the availability of me even though I wasn't really available. He misses the title of friendship with me.

If there's one thing I always hated about knowing this guy, it was how complicated he made everything. Even now that I'm free of him, he has to complicate my peace and freedom.

I compiled almost everything he's done since the end of the friendship. I'm not sure if it's enough for a restraining order, but it's worth a try. They'll probably need me to feel my safety is threatened. If he comes to my job, I'll alert my managers and hide away, and that'd likely help my case.
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Midna love please please please stay safe...I'm concerned by how unstable he is.Ouch
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Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Yes it sends them a message letting them know they can't contact you.

No it doesn't. I tried it myself by blocking my Google Voice number and then sending myself a text from my Google Voice account. Nothing happened except my iPhone didn't get my Google Voice text.
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im exhausted just reading that.
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