Ladies.. I "broke up" with a friend. The dude is toxic, a user, a loser, a bum, can't wipe his own ass and I'm not his mama or his girlfriend.
I've been this dude's friend for three years and some days ago, I realized I do not like this guy at all anymore and just deleted him off of facebook. It was no surprise. I have been extremely cold to him in person because I feel even greeting him is an annoying chore.
I break it off, he makes passive aggressive statuses insulting me (received screenshot from friend, messy, I know) I casually ask "how so?" in a non-threatening manner, but it just turns into the ugliest conversation on his part while I'm remaining composed and cordial and he just.. retrogresses into the most immature and childish thing. Guy was making accusations left and right about how I'm in love with him (I had a crush on him three years ago. Yeah. Three years ago
), he doesn't know what he did wrong, I'm manipulating everything, I'm bs-ing, I ruined his reputation even though he ruined it on his own by being an annoying using arse and I'm just trying to thoroughly explain my stance as to why I am no longer interested in the friendship including all of the toxic attributes, the terrible habits he has, the way he uses people, how dumb he is (negro is DUMB), all the things he has done to hurt me, and how him portraying me as some girl madly in love with him to his girlfriends/exes has them bothering me with all kinds of anonymous mess for two years because of his fantasies. One would get tired of this eventually. But because we grew rather distant, I think the wearing thin of my patience was slowed down dramatically.
Anyway, so the friendship is over. You think that'd be it, he's pissed but he will move on. Nope.
This dude is now sending me angry messages repeatedly online and offline. Day by day. Telling me I'm so bitter because I never dated him, I'm evil, I'm horrible, I will never find a good relationship, any guy who dates me is stupid, all because I walked out of this poisonous friendship.
I am lost because I'm surprised this dude still has my contact information. I deleted his number days ago. This friendship has been so distant for the longest time to the point where we only meet if we coincidentally attend the same party and he only contacts me when he needs a ride (bitch please, I'm not a taxi) to which I don't give. In other words, we are mad distant. Like.. talk once every 3 months distant.
Yet in a matter of days, this guy has turned into the ex from hell I never dated.
I don't like drama in my life so drama at this extent has kind of shocked me. He seemed like the type of person to just let folks go.
I'm feeling slightly vindictive, maybe I should prove his ass right and post his messages, texts, and voicemail. Buahaa