And they say women do the most, oh my god

Ladies.. I "broke up" with a friend. The dude is toxic, a user, a loser, a bum, can't wipe his own ass and I'm not his mama or his girlfriend.

I've been this dude's friend for three years and some days ago, I realized I do not like this guy at all anymore and just deleted him off of facebook. It was no surprise. I have been extremely cold to him in person because I feel even greeting him is an annoying chore.

I break it off, he makes passive aggressive statuses insulting me (received screenshot from friend, messy, I know) I casually ask "how so?" in a non-threatening manner, but it just turns into the ugliest conversation on his part while I'm remaining composed and cordial and he just.. retrogresses into the most immature and childish thing. Guy was making accusations left and right about how I'm in love with him (I had a crush on him three years ago. Yeah. Three years ago), he doesn't know what he did wrong, I'm manipulating everything, I'm bs-ing,  I ruined his reputation even though he ruined it on his own by being an annoying using arse and I'm just trying to thoroughly explain my stance as to why I am no longer interested in the friendship including all of the toxic attributes, the terrible habits he has, the way he uses people, how dumb he is (negro is DUMB), all the things he has done to hurt me, and how him portraying me as some girl madly in love with him to his girlfriends/exes has them bothering me with all kinds of anonymous mess for two years because of his fantasies. One would get tired of this eventually. But because we grew rather distant, I think the wearing thin of my patience was slowed down dramatically.

Anyway, so the friendship is over. You think that'd be it, he's pissed but he will move on. Nope.

This dude is now sending me angry messages repeatedly online and offline. Day by day. Telling me I'm so bitter because I never dated him, I'm evil, I'm horrible, I will never find a good relationship, any guy who dates me is stupid, all because I walked out of this poisonous friendship.

I am lost because I'm surprised this dude still has my contact information. I deleted his number days ago. This friendship has been so distant for the longest time to the point where we only meet if we coincidentally attend the same party and he only contacts me when he needs a ride (bitch please, I'm not a taxi) to which I don't give. In other words, we are mad distant. Like.. talk once every 3 months distant.

Yet in a matter of days, this guy has turned into the ex from hell I never dated.

I don't like drama in my life so drama at this extent has kind of shocked me. He seemed like the type of person to just let folks go.

I'm feeling slightly vindictive, maybe I should prove his ass right and post his messages, texts, and voicemail. Buahaa

I bet that niccuh's a Scorpio.  I broke up with my Scorpio best friend last year, and that asshole went ballistic.  So glad to be rid of him--don't you actually breathe a sigh of relief when they're gone?

He just sent me this, bless his heart

"Hey Midna. Sorry for asking if I can ride with you last time we went to little Tokyo. I know you don't care why I haven't been hanging out with you, since you're still bitter that I never dated you. I feel like I owe it to you to let you know that your lack of willingness to admit your own faults is going to keep you from having a good relationship. Thank you for trashing my reputation. I didn't ever really deserve that and I still don't. If you ever find someone who would date the kind of person who would do something as ugly as that then i hope you can deal with how stupid he is. If you ever find a way to sum up the wrong that I supposedly did to you, please let me know. Other than that, I wish you the best of luck. Im sorry that you lack the willingness to communicate with me and work things out with me as a friend, which is kind of what you need in a relationship."

Now he's my relationship counselor

Aren't I supposed to be the one sprung over relationships and him?

I just replied "Uh.. ok"

CherryBlossom wrote: OMG he sounds like a total nutcase *shudders*

I was genuinely surprised when he said I am unwilling to admit my wrongs because I was repeatedly asking him exactly what my wrongs were so I could take responsibility and correct myself if I deemed it legit!

I'm human and I am not afraid of admitting my wrongs, never have been. So why in his eyes do I suddenly have all kinds of attributes that are not my normality?

This man has blinded himself. I'm gonna try to upload some of his voicemails if I can.

I know this nicca is annoying the shyt out of you Minda..but he sounds like a nutjob...I wouldn't let anything he says bother me (easier said than done). Just ignore his messages, don't even open them, just delete them and don't respond...he will eventually tire and stop.