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Soratachi 
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 Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 1:30pm |
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So he cheats with another woman??
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 1:38pm |
 maysay1 wrote:
Similar to...if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Yeah, if I was with a man for whom his relationship with God was really important then that reasoning would make sense. If you'll cheat on god, you'll certainly have no issue cheating on me.
Kinda like a guy I was dating who had no problem doing something unsavory to his children's mother. If he'll do it to her, mother of his children, clearly he'd have no issue treating me the same way.
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yeah, that sums it up. i know that someone cheated on would feel salty by this explanation but if you look at the big picture forgiveness or getting over the person should come easier.
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 1:46pm |
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Her waiting for marriage wouldn't have prevented her man's cheating. If he "cheats" on God, and if God is important to him, he'll cheat on anyone. He is still a douche, and his excuse makes him an even bigger douche.
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 1:49pm |
Limalady wrote:
Her waiting for marriage wouldn't have prevented her man's cheating. If he "cheats" on God, and if God is important to him, he'll cheat on anyone. He is still a douche, and his excuse makes him an even bigger douche. |
lol this guy...i think would cheat regardless too...he didn't seem all that holy in any sense of the word...but if someone was being honest about this excuse then maybe it can make sense.
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 2:27pm |
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So, guys...I was watching that classy joint 'Cheaters' in the wee hours of the morning and something a cheater said struck me as interesting. He said his woman wanted to have premarital sex which is against God. He begs the question...How can you make me cheat on God(by fornicating) and expect me not to cheat on you?...a mere mortal. Now, if you expect your man to break his vow as a Christian, what makes you think his vow of monogamy to you would be stronger than his vow to God? Is it fair to even expect that?
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We are not suppose to have sex until marriage.Therefore, we are already fornicating with God. God is perfect and we should only place all our trust in him not humans unless there is marriage involved. This guy has NO real commitment to her because they are not married.
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 2:38pm |
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lol
interesting perspective..
10/10 for originality
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 2:41pm |
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Although IA he was just saying stuff to try to get off the hook, that is an intriguing question for devout peoples.
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 2:43pm |
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negroes always coming up with some excuse or other for their shady behavior
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Midna
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 3:29pm |
Wonderland, I'm mad you're even entertaining this obvious excuse.   Those people say ANYTHING to seem innocent or like the victim despite them being the perpetrator. The fool was too stupid to realize he is essentially still cheating on God by engaging with premarital sex by cheating on his partner. His cheating is "doubled."
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Posted: Jan 06 2013 at 3:32pm |
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It's not the cheating, it's the lying. He can cheat all he wants but she never asked him to lie to God.*
*this opinion is for this specific situation only.
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