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Good god everybody always trying to over analyze things in these threads just to feel like Dr. Phil..

Like I said..next time I need advice about a man..I'll be sure to ask another man.

All I wanted to know was if I should let his mom be in my child's life and everybody starts talking about unnecessary crap.

I didn't bother to read any other posts so I assume they talk in to midna but I'll chill your entitled to your opinion


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And you damn right I got defensive there is a way people can talk to each other without being so disrespectful.
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Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:



I didn't bother to read any other posts so I assume they talk in to midna but I'll chill your entitled to your opinion



GROW UP! No one talked to her, she is often in this section giving advices, of course she came here to help.

Quit bumping other threads so yours will be at the bottom of the page. Half of BHM already read your messy story.



Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:



No..I'm not mad I see people ask for advice on here then get mad when somebody tells them what they don't want to hear... I use to be like that lol grew up a long time ago.



Apparently you didn't grow up.
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No shade but......

His mom is not even really the issueConfused
I am going to say no to intentional baby mommaism in 2014
I read where he took you to work , do you have a car? If No, no to baby mommaism 
He is not really ready to be in a relationship, carrying for a child when he has no parenting experience and anger issues = Confused
You seem more upset about you guys not living together than the other messConfused
How do people just get " surprise pregnant" in 2014Cry You have sex with no birth control its possible a baby could happen


he needs therapy
you need a hug and to start worrying about you and that baby you are having, he showed you who he was and you TRIED  painting a better picture than the one staring you in the face .
If he felt so strongly about his mom there was always the option to not talk to her at ALL until he felt they could be in a better place. Being disrespectful is never okay.

If he will do the fool on the woman who birthed him, YOU aint got a chance in hell.



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All I wanted to know was if I should let his mom be in my child's life and everybody starts talking about unnecessary crap.

Girll Phuck that crazy batch of crazy.....
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Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:



One day he was taking me to my job and we see his mom at the store. She asks for a ride and he gives her a ride but he's so nasty and rude to her in my head I'm thinking omg did I somehow slip up again and get into another abusive relationship because based on my experiences abusive men are terrible to their mothers.

And to top things off he when he drops her off..he looks at me and says.."that's how you treat people like that"

Then I really freak out but I end up letting it go because time passed..he's never treated me like that he doesn't even cuss at me when we argue never laid a hand on me..


He's reeling you in first. Give it time. Youre only six months in. You have noting invested. I wouldnt hang around.


I judge hard anybody who is nasty to their mom. Especially a male. He should just not deal with her at all, if its that painful and ugly for him.




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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

 he showed you who he was and you TRIED  painting a better picture than the one staring you in the face .
If he felt so strongly about his mom there was always the option to not talk to her at ALL until he felt they could be in a better place. Being disrespectful is never okay.

If he will do the fool on the woman who birthed him, YOU aint got a chance in hell.





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I would honestly say I'd have to get to know her well enough first before she can just draw close to her grandchild....because there is alot you still may not know that may be important (a great deal) of information before leaving ya child with her. So don't hold that against her, but still sorta build some type of relationship with her so you'll know what or shall I say who your working with you know.

P.S. Now that ish he pulled as far as not wanting to move in with you and your child is some str8 up BullShhhhhhh and honestly he may just try that same ish later on down the line...so be careful and always be prepared for what's to come. Shield your heart baby girl....But overall I wish you luck.


Edited by Beauty620 - Mar 17 2014 at 1:04pm
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