No shade but......
His mom is not even really the issue
I am going to say no to intentional baby mommaism in 2014
I read where he took you to work , do you have a car? If No, no to baby mommaism
He is not really ready to be in a relationship, carrying for a child when he has no parenting experience and anger issues =
You seem more upset about you guys not living together than the other mess
How do people just get " surprise pregnant" in 2014
You have sex with no birth control its possible a baby could happen
he needs therapy
you need a hug and to start worrying about you and that baby you are having, he showed you who he was and you TRIED painting a better picture than the one staring you in the face .
If he felt so strongly about his mom there was always the option to not talk to her at ALL until he felt they could be in a better place. Being disrespectful is never okay.
If he will do the fool on the woman who birthed him, YOU aint got a chance in hell.