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Haha I just texted her asking if we could talk so once I update after our talk I'll be done talking about this. I didn't want it to turn into a talk about race relations, but I guess it was inevitable. I really do appreciate all the feedback I've gotten. I've become kind of a loner ever since knuckling down with school and work, so I don't have many friends to talk to about stuff like this...
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Cut her off. She goin' make you her baby sitter. Kuht dat bytch awf!!! Cool
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There are far too many Black people in the Philly area (even Nigerians specifically) that you can spend your time with instead of these idiots.
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Originally posted by Nigerian_princess Nigerian_princess wrote:

OK I shouldn't have said that I know because I really don't. That's a silly assumption to make.

And I'm 23. I was trying to figure out the right way to word "type of black" but it sounds bad no matter how i tried to word it
 
the point is you highly suspect it.  same difference. 
 
and for future reference...there is no right way to say that bullshyt...


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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

There are far too many Black people in the Philly area (even Nigerians specifically)
 
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Im working hard to get outta here. Trust me.
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No matter her race, she's a jealous devious wench. 

Don't fall for the "I didn't know"/crying/voice quiver. She will try to make it about her & flip the script.

Stand firm OP. 



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Originally posted by Nigerian_princess Nigerian_princess wrote:

How do I avoid being anyone's only black friend? Ask them for their Annual Black Friend Quota? I know that I am for as lot of people I'm friends with, but I think that because I'm the type of black that white people aren't intimidated by. And by that I mean "I don't act like I just got off the SEPTA from West Philly". <==That was something I was actually told by one of my former nurse managers. I think it was supposed to be a compliment...


To help you out...if you haven't seen or don't know this stuff already...

Watch the video "Sh*t white girls say...to black girls" by Chescaleigh (it's on youtube). It's all about microagressions.

Go to Gradient Lair (www.gradientlair.com) and search and read about microagressions, respectability politics, tokenism. Actually just read everything there.

Find some positive, uplifting people to be around (start with black women, just because).
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Originally posted by Nigerian_princess Nigerian_princess wrote:

Im working hard to get outta here. Trust me.
 
just curious...why can't you find negroids in philly to hang out with?
 
and just where are you planning to go where there are a plethora-o-special-negroids  such as yourself for you to hang out with?
 
 
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by Nigerian_princess Nigerian_princess wrote:

Im working hard to get outta here. Trust me.
 
just curious...why can't you find negroids in philly to hang out with?
 
and just where are you planning to go where there are a plethora-o-special-negroids  such as yourself for you to hang out with?
 
 
 
iDies! LOL Stop TC
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