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    Posted: Jul 18 2014 at 6:29pm
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I was bored at work on July 5th, so I checked my phone to see what my friend was doing. I open up my messages and I see she had sent me a picture last night.

What was it of?

A Facebook screenshot of my ex boyfriend and his current girlfriend announcing their engagement (that whole "I said YES!" with a pic of them and the ring. Ugh). Now, this is the ex that was my first...everything. The one that it took a long time for me to get over. The one SHE KNOWS I still have a bit of a soft spot in my heart for, despite us not being friends anymore. And that's why I purposely deleted him from Facebook because I needed to stop torturing myself and move on, which I can say I have done.

So for her to feel the need to send me that...knowing everything she knows...I just didn't understand. Is that funny?

I texted her back saying "Andrea...seriously?" I literally couldn't think of how to formulate my anger into 160 characters. All she said back was "Whoopsie :p" as if it were an accident.

Needless to say, I've avoided speaking to her since. And tis isn't the first time she's done some foul ish like this. She once posted an article on my FB wall talking about my company getting bought out and said in big letters "I HOPE YOU DONT LOSE YOUR JOB!" I took her to task for that too, so this is nothing new.

I'm writing about this now because she just texted me asking what I was doing tonight. I haven't answered and I don't know if I will/should. I just wanted some feedback on this from outside people. My sister is so angry at her, but only because she knows about all her stupid stunts. And if I had done something like this to her, I'd never live it down.

What should I do?

Tl;dr-My best friend did some foul ish and idk if I still want to associate with her.
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That is no friend tell her to get lost...seem like she gets joy from tormenting you.
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Yea, you have a good reason to be mad but don't waste any more time/emotions on her... she doesn't respect you

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I mean if you want hang with her do so but don't discuss none of your business...just have fun and keep it short cuz you know what's she's capable of.
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True friends hold a little bit of your heart in their hands.
Just as you hold a piece of theirs in yours.
It's precious cargo.
You already know the answer to this one.
Turn her loose and don't look back.
Sorry for the pain she caused you and hope you feel better soon.
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The fact that she threw the picture in your face knowing your history with your ex is a slap in the face. She couldn't be my friend.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 18 2014 at 6:52pm
i mean… she might have thought that you should know something as big as an engagement.. but to say it in text..? 
then that 'whoopsie :p"????

dont talk to her anymore. 


id want to talk to her about it first and know why she would do that… then depending on her response (unless its apology ridden) let her know why she doesnt deserve to be in your world. 


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i replied on relationships, but i think she is just not very bright. can you give more examples of foul-ish stuff she has done?
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she would never hear another word out of my mouth or see another keystroke from me

Unless I was telling her "I'm the mfking sun you can't throw shade on me"

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i'd probably at this point would just throw the ball in her court and ask her to decide whether she's my friend or my enemy, cuz contrary to popular belief you cant be both.
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