am i wrong for giving up on bw?

i try to stay loyal to sista but they only love bm that are midnight black and hate lighskin mixed boys.Meanwhile ww/non-black women love a lightskin boy i get approached by them all the time.I wanted to have a black family and black kids but its hard to find a bw who wont throw up at the sight of a ls bm.All the ls boys i know are single and will stay single unless they date out we got it even harder then the chocolate women.What so unnattractive about ls men? why arent we as loved as darker men? And should i sty single or should i go ahead and take these ww thats at me.

Confidence is attractive. Women love confident men. You sound like you have low self esteem which women will intuitively pick up on. Think more positively.

Don't generalize. You would be surprised at how many bw love light skinned men. How did you arrive to this conclusion?

chicago bulls wrote: i mean the girls flat out and say they hate ls men and arent attracted to us.I hear it to my face,in public, on twitter everywhere bw just sh1tting on ls men and praising dark men.Its the other way around version of what they accuse bm of of doing with ls women and ds women

You need to build a tough skin. I'm brown skinned, and have never been affected by men criticising non light skinned women. I've lived in predominantly white areas and had men state that they flat out are not interested in any bw of any sort. I have seen men on twitter write that they would never date a brown or dark skinned woman. You cannot change their opinions/preferences, so why spend time thinking about it? In this world every shade is admired by some. Don't go by what other people say. Are you certain that you have never had a bw interested in you? If dating bw is too difficult then date ww, date who you want to. I am sure that you could easily find a bw who likes you. Maybe you are invisible to some bw liking you.

There are plenty of black women who like light skin men, I don't want to sound rude but, it may have nothing to do with your skin.....