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    Posted: Mar 13 2013 at 10:15am
I'm so tired of some of my white co workers not speaking to me when I come to work or brush me off when I say something to them.I walk into the break room & they don't say sh*t, but they'll speak to each other. If somebody would come in when I was sitting there, I used to be like 'hey what's up?' But now I refuse to speak to some of them because I feel they are just rude. I was raised to greet people & act friendly. Its the southern way, however I refuse to be disrespected by asshole co workers. Is it wrong to not acknowledge them unless they speak to me first? LMKS BHM.

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U know some ppl r just asshole and more than likely they r a bunch of racists 

Edited by Guidette - Mar 13 2013 at 10:42am
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Don't do it.  It is the definition of letting them steal your joy.  Get your revenge by becoming their bossCool

Or leaving them bishes there when you start ballin'
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i go thru this too and feel the same way sometimes.....hmmmm
 
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I'm like you and was raised to smile and say hi (I don't do small talk that much though lol)

so I can see why you are annoyed

however, I think you should still say hello and acknowledge their presence

I don't know if this job is a career choice or not, but if it is you will have to suck it up and play nice
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Don't let it bother you at all.
 
Just be in your zone and forget them clear peoples, seriously.
 
You are there for one reason only anyway.
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This is a just a job. But I feel like lately I give myself and I get nothing but attitude in return. I'm starting to have a chip on my shoulder.
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Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

This is a just a job. But I feel like lately I give myself and I get nothing but attitude in return. I'm starting to have a chip on my shoulder.


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I know it's hard but you have to disconnect your personal feelings from this bullsh*t and let it roll off your back.
 
Go in there get your work done and collect that check and fck everything else really. You can do alladat and not appear to have an attitude or chip on your shoulder.
 
Just a polite smile and keep it moving.


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Rum is right but I get wanting to cuss a cracker out
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