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and sending an emissary to deliver the gifts while you were in the house

was not genuinely warm and sweet
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and I say that with love as a sister with a slick tongue and sharp edge


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Oh I'm just reading the part about them not paying up on time. Girl....lol...they are not your friends. Please stop saying that. 

My so-called "friend" of a roommate stopped paying her half of the rent for like 3 months. The only way I found out is because the manager called me to ask if we were renewing and that we would need to pay the missing part. Both of our names were on the lease. In the end, that landlord gave me my deposit and she put the responsibility of the unpaid rent on my roommate, but that was her. I had to butter her azz up for that. So, you should go speak with your landlord..let he/she know the situation. Give your notice. Tell him/her you will continue paying your portion and you're not sure what the others will do. That way when you leave, you get your deposit back and you're cleared from any issues with back rent. Speak up now...don't wait. Get the landlord on your side..maybe even inquire about transferring into a studio or one bedroom. 

Play them nice for the duration of your lease and be out. 
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I agree with apologizing.....I wouldn't have opened your sh*t either....you didn't show up to dinner AND to top it off you send someone else to give me your gift? you and your gift lol.



Just talk it over to smooth things out, those four months will fly by
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I agree with everything that Khivey said.

I also hope that you see that there's a life lesson in this for you, too. One of the greatest ways to resolve a conflict is to tackle it before it escalates. Small issues become big issues unnecessarily all the time, and coming to a resolution is ALWAYS that much harder. At some point, you'll probably live with someone else--be it your man, children, family members, whomever--and you will find that having ground rules and nipping issues in the bud early usually makes life much easier.
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I'm in a messy ass mood so I would have took pics of all their filth and posted it on facebook and tagged them
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Oh I'm just reading the part about them not paying up on time. Girl....lol...they are not your friends. Please stop saying that. 

My so-called "friend" of a roommate stopped paying her half of the rent for like 3 months. The only way I found out is because the manager called me to ask if we were renewing and that we would need to pay the missing part. Both of our names were on the lease. In the end, that landlord gave me my deposit and she put the responsibility of the unpaid rent on my roommate, but that was her. I had to butter her azz up for that. So, you should go speak with your landlord..let he/she know the situation. Give your notice. Tell him/her you will continue paying your portion and you're not sure what the others will do. That way when you leave, you get your deposit back and you're cleared from any issues with back rent. Speak up now...don't wait. Get the landlord on your side..maybe even inquire about transferring into a studio or one bedroom. 

Play them nice for the duration of your lease and be out. 




that right there.  Reaching out to your landlord is the best thing you can do right now. U need to worry about yourself and fucc those females Hairdo.  these females will fucc u in your ear and not care.  Like Khivey, RR and a few other stated... these people are not your friends.  It's a hassle to move but a peaceful home is worth it's weight in virgin hair.
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Be careful though that's what I did. I thought I would just pay my part and she would pay her part ... but she didn't. There is no way for you to make sure they pay their part.

That's how things got turned off. :(

Also, don't forget that you have to get your deposits back. (I don't know how they do things now) but I had to psy a deposit on my utility bills and the rental .. so if things go sideways you might not get your money back.

Also, be aware thay THEY might move out before the end of the 4 months so then you have to pay the last month or so alone.

Not saying this will happen but roommates can really mess you over.

Talk to the landlord and ask if you can get off the lease and put ypiur name on a small apartment alone. They get a new customer that way.

Just watch out... things might escalate if they see you are not gonna PAY the bills anymore and chase them for money they never want to give you.

Some folks have bad home training .. so they are fine with using people like this.

Thanks for the advice....yea I think I'll just make them give me the money for the bills before it gets paid...that's what I've been doing and even though I have to chase them, it's been working

one of the girls is well off so if she was annoyed she might move but I doubt it...the other one won't, im pretty sure

It's a house that we are renting (the landlord owns it) so it would be so hard for me at this point to find a new place to settle into
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


Ok didnt read anything but half the OP

if you don't want to be a hermit/recluse and you know you have a mean bitter side

you have to mix the bitter with some real warmth and sweetness ... 1 part bitter to 2 parts genuine warm/sweet

to solve the dishes issue either remove the dishes since they are yours and everyone pitch in for paper and plastic or everyone put together the $20 ea to get someone to clean every week



lol this was great advice, i love it! Thanks Ricky...im going to do this

I'm going to continue using my dishes cuz I don't mind washing up after myself but I'll buy the first round for them just so they get the hang of it, then they can continue afterward
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:



and sending an emissary to deliver the gifts while you were in the house

was not genuinely warm and sweet

lol i was pissed and fed up so at that point zero fuccs were given but yea looking back, i can agree
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