Ughhhh so I'm having an issue
I live with two girls who I became friends with last year at school (I recently returned to uni to finish my undergrad) so I'm a lot older than most ppl there (the girls are 21 and I'm 27)....ever since we moved in together we just keep fighting and fighting
This most recent fight had to do with cleaning...the two of them NEVER clean and while I'm not perfect myself (who is?) I always make the effort and most of the time I feel like I'm the only one who gives a fucc about keeping the house clean
A few days ago I finally had enough (the dishes had been piled up in the sink for like 2 weeks, to the point where I couldn't even wash a utensil or cup) and I blew up....the majority of the dishes are ones that I own so I washed everything and I took all my shiit upstairs ... a few days before that I blew up on the one roomie I'm closer to and I was just cussing an cussing about howit's so disrespectful that they don't give a shiit about keeping our house clean
So since then none of us have spoken. Yesterday was supposed to be our christmas dinner but I copped out because I've just been in my own funk lately (dealing with family issues) and I didn't want to bring down the mood...so the show went on without me which was fine...I got another mutual friend to bring the gifts I bought for them downstairs so they could open them when it was time...but today I'm seeing that they left the gifts I bought them plus the gifts they got me on the floor in the corner (should I be offended?)...I kinda think it's rude and was really rude to not at least say thank you (at least I got someone to give it to them on my behalf)
Anyway, now I feel like maybe I just can't be friends with young ppl? I don't know...like am I wrong? Keep in mind for the last two months, every single time the dishes have piled up, i've been the one to do them (everyone's dirty dishes) and so finally I was just like fucc this..
I don't know what to do cuz we have 4 more months to live together and I feel sooo resentful and I'm questioning if I should be in these friendships
Part of me knows that these are just the perils of living together and friendships can be reconciled once ppl have distance but I really don't know how I'll get through the next four months and I just don't know if in general i have the patience for younger ppl who are still maturing (part of me doesn't blame them cuz I was young once too but fucc)
disclaimer: Lord I pray this thread doesn't go to the left...it's not about an intimate relationship so I'm hoping this can stay on track with true, honest opinions...sometimes anonymous opinions can help!