Sorry to hear that Oo. Thank goodness I'm old enough now that people just leave me the hell alone!
Real problems cannot be solved by imaginary deities. Truly the only person who can solve the issues in your life is you. Let me try some ideas:
- Try talking to someone you wouldn't normally confide it but would trust their advice
- Prioritize, prioritize, prioritize
- Ask - Is there anything that you are doing that influences your outcomes negatively
- Ask - Is there someone in your life that influences your outcomes negatively
- Start with low hanging fruit, things you can solve easily by changing one or two things
- Focus on your end game
- If something is not part of your end game, let it go and replace with something that is
- Are YOU happy before you try making anyone else happy. If not STOP, Focus on YOU
Just some thoughts. Probably not specific enough for the sh*t you're dealing with but hopefully I hit at least one!! I'm feeling "advicey" this morning