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Almost a year since my DH passed...(vent)

 
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Hang in there sis!
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I can't even begin to imagine how hard this is for you and your children. I pray that you find the peace and strength you need to cope.


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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

 
 
I miss my husband every minute of every single day. There was just no one in the world like him, and there was no one who meant to me what he meant to me. It still seems unreal. This morning, I woke up at 4 am and ran downstairs to the living room wondering why he wasn't in bed. It just keeps happening. I hardly get any rest. I feel disoriented and confused all the time. Why isn't it getting any easier?


Wow. That's a soul connection...love in its purest form. You established a true connection with that man. I prayed 4 you.Heart

I hope you heal emotionally and find someone to talk to.
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I am so sorry for your loss, BB
I can't imagine how you feel. Just know that there are NO limits for your grief, that was your husband. You do what you gotta do and don't let anyone make you feel any type of way.

May God lift you in his arms and keep your soul steady and strong. My condolences 
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I honestly don't think people realize how much a person become part of your life especially a spouse....I know Ive only been with mr00 6 almost seven years and thinking of him when I make decisions is like a reflex....I couldn't imagine losing him...even though I know I will eventually.....people can't understand because then haven't experienced it.....
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I don't think the death of a spouse is something you get over in a year....especially when you were together for so long. I've been told it helps to talk about your spouse even if he has passed so come on BHM and come talk it out. You've been so helpful to so many, the least we can do is read your words and type a response. I hope the days get easier but don't be ashamed if they don't or and don't put any pressure on what you "should" do.  Talk to your kids.  It's times like these when your kids can move beyond being your children and can actually become your friends, your solace and your comfort. 

Sorry again AuntB
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Smh@anyone who ask "why you still so sad". I would snap.

OP im sorry about what you're going through. I have no words that would even begin to conpare to what this must feel like. However, you speak of your relationship with your husband as one that was overflowing with love and thats something we all desire in life.   To find someone who makes you feel that way is a gift given to few.


I say take your time and move at the speed you're comfortable with.
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Praying for you, sending you warm thoughts. I truly hope that it gets easier for you. Vent, get it out.
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I am so very very sorry for your loss
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I just woke up so I apologize for being so short.

You never stop grieving. It's a long process. I finally started to address mine and I would like to share an article that I was given.

I will send it via pm when I have put access.
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