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i haven't lost a husband but my mom was my road dawg and i still grieve...it took me well over 2 years to get back to semi-normal.  and believe it or not this is exactly where i came whenever i needed to just get my mind off of things for a while...
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

HeartHeartHugHugHeartHeart
 
i haven't lost a husband but my mom was my road dawg and i still grieve...it took me well over 2 years to get back to semi-normal.  and believe it or not this is exactly where i came whenever i needed to just get my mind off of things for a while...


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BB, HugHeartHug
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BB I had tears in my eyes just reading the title on the front page.

We just can not imagine how you must feel. I know that I'd be torn apart, you're being do strong, my heart goes out to you

I like Jones' suggestion about a widows support group. 

It sounds extremely trite but have you tried a pet?  I suggest it because the cats helped my grandmother and she hated all animals but the fact that they care unconditionally and console her with no explanation needed, somehow helps her.   Although I have two cats, I think the right dog would be better 

I feel like I have so much to say but just can't find the words.  I'm so sorry about your husband and I pray peace and eventual happiness to be upon you Ms. BB.





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Op u not bogging down the forum K...rather have a post like this a...with someone expressing their feelings than foolery.
feel betterrr
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I was wondering where you have been Hug. It is not fair for people set time limits on grief as if EVERYONE is the same. One year is no time at all! I say take all the time you need for the "sting" to go away. I lost someone very close to me 7 years ago and that "sting" that would send me into tears stayed for years no matter how I tried to "get over it". Now, while the wave of immediate pain is gone, the sadness I feel when I hear certain songs is still there sometimes Unhappy.  I am so sorry for your lose BB.
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I was thinking about you the other day. You've always been one of the most inspiring posters to me. It hasn't even been a year. Your feelings are so perfectly natural. Like others have said before, don't be afraid to share your thoughts and feelings with your children. You may think you might burden them when in reality it might do them good to have you open up to them and them to you. I lost my father this year and I can tell you that I would worry about my own mother a lot more if we didn't have an open communication. Most likely, they want to be there for you. Let them. Take care of yourself. Keeping you in my thoughts   
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Hug No matter how much time has passed you have every right to feel how you feel. 
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