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Babydoll9163 
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 Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 7:41pm |
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I wish Mashonda would stop responding. I get why she is, but it makes her look pitiful.
A. Keys girl power movement is dead. She might as well gwon take that trip to the "dark side."
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nala52808
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 7:54pm |
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Alicia Keys is definitely not what she used to be. I liked her before she met swizz beats. now, i think her music is crappier. she doesn't put her heart into it anymore. Are maybe her voice got sh!ttier after the baby? I just don't know.
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 7:58pm |
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I wonder if Alicia is say this to clean up her image .
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 8:25pm |
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I wonder if Alicia is say this to clean up her image . |
If she did it was an epic fail
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 8:51pm |
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As God is my witness if I ever get with a guy that had a kid or that geriatric I'm dealing with, I'm going straight to the baby momma to make sure there's no mess I'm walking into. My pastor did that to his wifes first husband and they got along well after that. |
This would be the best way, but men and women are so different. Men can have a conversation without emotion and get to the bottom of what is really going on. Women are too emotional and it would lead to unnecessary drama. He could be seriously through with her, but her feelings are still caught up in him so she could lie..or anything. It isn't worth it. Best way to figure out the status is to ask if the BM or wife has moved on ie had a baby by someone else or is re-married. I avoid dealing with men with children unless the mother has completely moved on with another man and that usually means had another baby or got married.
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 9:13pm |
khivey wrote:
bk2la981 wrote:
As God is my witness if I ever get with a guy that had a kid or that geriatric I'm dealing with, I'm going straight to the baby momma to make sure there's no mess I'm walking into. My pastor did that to his wifes first husband and they got along well after that. |
This would be the best way, but men and women are so different. Men can have a conversation without emotion and get to the bottom of what is really going on. Women are too emotional and it would lead to unnecessary drama. He could be seriously through with her, but her feelings are still caught up in him so she could lie..or anything. It isn't worth it.
Best way to figure out the status is to ask if the BM or wife has moved on ie had a baby by someone else or is re-married.
I avoid dealing with men with children unless the mother has completely moved on with another man and that usually means had another baby or got married.
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I've had 2 guys leave their gfs for me (i.didn't find out til much later) and one who was stil in love with his bm and she was stil in love with him. If I would have asked her, I would have spared myself the heartbreak when he and I couldnt make it work- because of their unresolved feelings. I never want to be the source of an innocent girls heartache again and I would want to know right away if the guy was that kind of loser. Guys are liars or theyre oblivious to womens feelings. I know 3 women by name that would have appreciated me ” making sure”. A real adult woman wouldnt mind if I asked. I wouldnt mind if another girl asked. if a bm had remarried or had another baby is one way but that's rarely the case.
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 9:16pm |
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lol y'all get off on this.
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Sang Froid
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Posted: Nov 21 2012 at 9:18pm |
I've been the other woman. Dude wasn't married though.
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Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 12:02pm |
starflower7 wrote:
Wildfire wrote:
so lemme know summin BHM...none of you ever been with a man who was attached, legally or otherwise, nor had another woman emotionally invested, etc?
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...not I....
However, I did talk to this dude for a while and I let him suck my titties but I later found out he had a wife. Not my fault because if I ask you if you have a wife/gf/etc and you say no, there's nothing else I can really do. But yeah, he was some type of sex addict or something but that was the end of that.
But I take that you have, willingly? |
Oh whoa.
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Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 12:16pm |
knowingly "other women" should be prosecuted as well as get their a$$e$ beat
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