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Fathers are very important, NO one is a perfect parent, if he want to be in the child's life then let him just make sure she is taking care of herself and not letting her emotions get the best of her
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Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter.  Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
Not having a father makes a child screwed? 

i think she's saying either way the child gets screwed in the situation (ie gets the short end of the stick) .
not the child will be screwed up.
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Originally posted by indiecat indiecat wrote:

This is what in dealing with right now. My daughters dad is horrible. But I feel it's my obligation to let her know she has a dad and to say that I tried.



Hug ! Sweetheart, in my opinion it is HIS obligation to let her know that. I just don't understand how someone can walk away from their child...it baffles me!

While I am not a single mom, I am surrounded by them. Their stories break my heart Cry. If I were, I would rather have the dad not show up at all then to be in and out of my child's life. By out I mean he better leave the state or the country.  I know myself and if my daughter waited by the window for a dad that didn't show up or only getting a call on father's day I would go nuts. I don't have enough faith in people to do the "he'll come around" type thing.  I am not a courts type of chick....I got too many big crazy male cousins for that. I'd make that mans life hell.
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I hate when women do this sh*t. Never works. They arent doing it for the Kid
They are rationalizing behavior to support s fairytale in their head of how things could be.

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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Fathers are very important, NO one is a perfect parent, if he want to be in the child's life then let him just make sure she is taking care of herself and not letting her emotions get the best of her
at what expense?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote OhMyCurlz Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:44pm
Everything nitabug and StylingArabella said. 

I wont have my child around a man that does not appreciate their worth. My child is worth more than waiting for a phone call that never arrives. Waiting to be picked up. Waiting. THAT is what causes kids the most issues. Having father's that are "there" when they want to be and then leave. Why would I put my child through that? 

There are plenty of children who have never known their biological parent(s) and are either adopted, raised by grandparents and they turn out just fine and non-emotionally scarred. Anybody can fill the role of a parent. Being a parent means nothing if you aren't a good one. 
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he literally walked away from the baby 4yrs ago and hasnt seen him since, what exactly will make that man change his mind and want a relationship with his child? Geek
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My friend had a child young and the father of the child denied his son. Then she met a great guy and fell in love. He married her and adopted her son and now the son has the adopted father's last name. Wellll that rubbed the biological father the wrong way. 

Now the biological father to the child, who was nowhere to be found, never paid a dime, never helped out and denied his son to everybody, is now wanting to know his son and wants her to change the child's last name back to his own. It was a sad situation. My ex who was best friends with this guy (which should have been a red flag for me Ermm) called him out on it and so did his family. His son looks like a mini him. It was really sad that she made every effort for him to be in the child's life. 
It wasn't until news about her wedding and the guy adopting his son that he finally woke up.
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Either way is bad. The little boy will be disappointed when he meets his dad because dad isn't ish. It may cause more tension and strain in the mom and dad's relationship, because I know she's going to get upset at him for hurting her baby's feelings. I wouldn't make an effort to see the bum, but if he wants to come around I wouldn't feel good saying no, you can't see your kid.
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But if the dad is denying the kid, then no I would not let him around our child that he is denying...
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