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my mother wasnt sht for a while… 
i couldnt imagine not knowing her crazy self though or not having any experiences with her.. although there were bad too. 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

my mother wasnt sht for a while… 
i couldnt imagine not knowing her crazy self though or not having any experiences with her.. although there were bad too. 


I see your point.
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This is what in dealing with right now. My daughters dad is horrible. But I feel it's my obligation to let her know she has a dad and to say that I tried.
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Let bigones be bigones. She can encourage a relationship all she wants but if the father doesn't want to be apart of the boy's life then she can't make him care.
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Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter.  Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
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Dont keep the child away, don't go out your way to accommodate the father.  Either you want to see your child or you don't. 
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter.  Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
Not having a father makes a child screwed? 

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Originally posted by sunshine321511 sunshine321511 wrote:

Dont keep the child away, don't go out your way to accommodate the father.  Either you want to see your child or you don't. 
Yep. It is really sad the dad doesn't want anything to do with his own seed. She's a teacher so I'm sure she has access to resources to help ensure her son has the right role models in his life as he grows.
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She asked my opinion and I told her. 

I don't think she should have him around him at all, and that is thinking of Justins (little boys) well being. 

Not every parent is deserving of a relationship with their child. The standard of parenting needs to be raised. 

My brother didn't have a relationship with my dad and he was fine. He was polite, nice, obedient. A good kid. My dad comes around for a while then completely drops off and my brother turned into an asshole, and started to immulate all of the bad things he saw my dad do. The damage is done. 

You want good influences around your child around their impressionable years, if a parent is a bad influence they shouldn't be in the child's life. I told her to be honest with Justin as he grows up, have him around uncles, his grandad in programs etc, but I see no good in having a little boy around a man who is a bad influence and has no desire to be a parent 100%. 
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Fathers are very important, NO one is a perfect parent, if he want to be in the child's life then let him just make sure she is taking care of herself and not letting her emotions get the best of her
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