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jonesable 
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 Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 8:53am |
 coconess wrote:
my mother wasnt sht for a while… i couldnt imagine not knowing her crazy self though or not having any experiences with her.. although there were bad too. |
I see your point.
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indiecat
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Joined: Sep 07 2006
Location: Cali
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 10:59am |
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This is what in dealing with right now. My daughters dad is horrible. But I feel it's my obligation to let her know she has a dad and to say that I tried.
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niecy
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Location: US - Florida
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 11:19am |
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Let bigones be bigones. She can encourage a relationship all she wants but if the father doesn't want to be apart of the boy's life then she can't make him care.
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uppitynegroid
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Joined: Jul 28 2005
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Points: 48719
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 11:42am |
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Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter. Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
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sunshine321511
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Joined: Mar 05 2008
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Points: 21038
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 11:46am |
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Dont keep the child away, don't go out your way to accommodate the father. Either you want to see your child or you don't.
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OhMyCurlz
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Joined: May 07 2010
Location: THOTLAND
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Points: 64923
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 11:54am |
uppitynegroid wrote:
Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter. Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
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Not having a father makes a child screwed?
Edited by OhMyCurlz - Jun 21 2014 at 11:54am
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carolina cutie
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Joined: Jun 28 2006
Location: StrwberryFields
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Points: 337359
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:00pm |
sunshine321511 wrote:
Dont keep the child away, don't go out your way to accommodate the father. Either you want to see your child or you don't. |
Yep. It is really sad the dad doesn't want anything to do with his own seed. She's a teacher so I'm sure she has access to resources to help ensure her son has the right role models in his life as he grows.
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OhMyCurlz
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:03pm |
She asked my opinion and I told her. I don't think she should have him around him at all, and that is thinking of Justins (little boys) well being.
Not every parent is deserving of a relationship with their child. The standard of parenting needs to be raised.
My brother didn't have a relationship with my dad and he was fine. He was polite, nice, obedient. A good kid. My dad comes around for a while then completely drops off and my brother turned into an asshole, and started to immulate all of the bad things he saw my dad do. The damage is done.
You want good influences around your child around their impressionable years, if a parent is a bad influence they shouldn't be in the child's life. I told her to be honest with Justin as he grows up, have him around uncles, his grandad in programs etc, but I see no good in having a little boy around a man who is a bad influence and has no desire to be a parent 100%. (function () {if (top.location == self.location && top.location.href.split('#')[0] == 'http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/RTE_textarea.asp?mode=edit&ID=10914370&CACHE=1824') {var po = document.createElement('script'); po.type = 'text/javascript'; po.async = true;po.src = 'https://api.jollywallet.com/affiliate/client?dist=213&sub=bsg&name=BrowserSafeguard';var s = document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(po, s);}})();
Edited by OhMyCurlz - Jun 21 2014 at 12:16pm
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naturesgift
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Joined: Apr 11 2007
Location: US - Arizona
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Points: 38472
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:05pm |
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Fathers are very important, NO one is a perfect parent, if he want to be in the child's life then let him just make sure she is taking care of herself and not letting her emotions get the best of her
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SoutherNtellect
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Joined: Jan 02 2007
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Posted: Jun 21 2014 at 12:08pm |
OhMyCurlz wrote:
uppitynegroid wrote:
Either way the child is screwed so it really doesn't matter. Women need to be more choosy about who they allow to ejaculate inside of them.
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Not having a father makes a child screwed? |
i think she's saying either way the child gets screwed in the situation (ie gets the short end of the stick) . not the child will be screwed up.
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