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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 5:20pm
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

I'm always tickled when people say " it ain't trickin if you got it".

Keep telling ya self that, but it's still trickin... you just got more to spend .
no it isnt

its called gifting actually

tricking is just a term used to shame those willing to spend
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 5:29pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

I'm always tickled when people say " it ain't trickin if you got it".

Keep telling ya self that, but it's still trickin... you just got more to spend .
no it isnt

its called gifting actually

tricking is just a term used to shame those willing to spend


I agree!!!!

But I also add the fact that it depends on the relationship with that person. R u spending to impress or because u genuinely care? But yeah Afro, people who say that are gift shamers.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 6:36pm
gift shamers........ mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


yall needs to stop
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 6:40pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

gift shamers........ mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


yall needs to stop
 
I immediately thought of slut shamers.  

I don't think the idea is that women shouldn't give gifts, but rather that women shouldn't give gifts to casual partners. I don't know where Tamar was coming from, but that was my view. I would buy my husband a car, but not my boyfriend. I've bought my current boyfriend expensive gifts, but it was much later in the relationship. No one is trying to shame women that buy gifts for men, but I do think women should expect more from men before giving gifts, like I don't know a commitment, monogamy, etc. But that is just me. Maybe I am a shamer.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 6:45pm
Yall will not justify buying a dude a car when you dont have one and not having a license at 18 but you can afford a car.......


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 6:49pm
I bought 2 guys cars...ain't that serious
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 8:10pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I bought 2 guys cars...ain't that serious
 
I'm buying my brother a car this year.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 9:31pm
so in Beyonce's words:

she went and bought her man a car, 
standing in the front yard saying how I'm such a fool

You must not know 'bout me, must not know 'bout me

( i know I skipped a lot but_____)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 9:41pm
Tamar's face kilt me.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 27 2013 at 9:42pm
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