I agree to a point but at what point is there just a lack of parenting? School should not be the only place your children learn, if the school system is bad in your area why are you living there? What about the parents who will wait in line for Jordons, kids talking on Iphone 5's but ask them about private school and they will say they don;t have money for that.
The school can't just put your child in special education but you would have to attend a meeting/ answer a phone call to know that. The same way with the labeling of ADD & ADHD. My sons teacher does not have to be black, lead by example and be a role model at home.
Before my son went to see Hunger Games, he read the book. He could not tell you a pair of Jordon 13 from a pair of Jordon 7. That is not a focus in my household. When he was having trouble in school I hired him a tutor, and he still attends Kumon because I don;t want his life to be forever a game of catch up. He already has cards stacked against him, I will not be adding to his life problems.
If you cannot afford to move to a better area with better schools, or pay for private school then get on birth control. Sorry its child abuse IMO.
How about start off not being someones baby momma...I can't with stuff like this.