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FACT: Just because a woman is past 35, single and childless DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUATE BITTERNESS and BAD CHOICES. This is an incredibly sexist and presumptuous assumption that does not take into account many factors such as:'
No, it does not mean it's your fault.
You need to catch a clue though and I don't know WHY the Black community is always ignorant of this subject.
Black women (in America) are the LEAST married and the least marriageable group in the country. This has been studied and documented at least for the last 30 years or so. This is when I became aware of this.
Why? Because throughout the country there is a 2 to 1 ratio of Black women to Black men. That is a huge problem and if we count EDUCATED and well to do Black men to Black women... the numbers are even ... lower. Overall you have to discount all the Black men that don't have enough sense to .. stay of prison, or are involved in criminal enterprises or are gay or into White girls, or unemployed etc ... so that what's left - the number of ELIABLE marriageable men is pretty small. Pitiful.
I remember back in the late 1980's when the ratio of Black women to Black men in Atlanta was ... 16 to 1! I remember CNN or some group writing an article saying that Black women had a greater chance of being held hostage by a Terrorist ... then they were to get married.
Why because Black men to do limit themselves to only dating Black women – but Black limit themselves to ONLY dating Black men. DUH! There are not enough B lack men.
So it falls on Black women to source a partner from a non-black pool of men. But of course people are so delusional about this basic fact ... they would rather squabble over the few Black men that are marriage material or SHARE these men (so you waste time with a bunch of liars and cheaters) or sit home alone be bitter about not being in a solid relationship.
Wake up Black women. Open your eyes. Stop pretending.
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Posted: Dec 18 2012 at 1:39am |
 Becky wrote:
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FACT: Just because a woman is past 35, single and childless DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUATE BITTERNESS and BAD CHOICES. This is an incredibly sexist and presumptuous assumption that does not take into account many factors such as:'
No, it does not mean it's your fault.
You need to catch a clue though and I don't know WHY the Black community is always ignorant of this subject.
Black women (in America) are the LEAST married and the least marriageable group in the country. This has been studied and documented at least for the last 30 years or so. This is when I became aware of this.
Why? Because throughout the country there is a 2 to 1 ratio of Black women to Black men. That is a huge problem and if we count EDUCATED and well to do Black men to Black women... the numbers are even ... lower. Overall you have to discount all the Black men that don't have enough sense to .. stay of prison, or are involved in criminal enterprises or are gay or into White girls, or unemployed etc ... so that what's left - the number of ELIABLE marriageable men is pretty small. Pitiful.
I remember back in the late 1980's when the ratio of Black women to Black men in Atlanta was ... 16 to 1! I remember CNN or some group writing an article saying that Black women had a greater chance of being held hostage by a Terrorist ... then they were to get married.
Why because Black men to do limit themselves to only dating Black women – but Black limit themselves to ONLY dating Black men. DUH! There are not enough B lack men.
So it falls on Black women to source a partner from a non-black pool of men. But of course people are so delusional about this basic fact ... they would rather squabble over the few Black men that are marriage material or SHARE these men (so you waste time with a bunch of liars and cheaters) or sit home alone be bitter about not being in a solid relationship.
Wake up Black women. Open your eyes. Stop pretending.
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wth does this have to do with the situation the op talking bout tho Becky?
Edited by f8dagrate - Dec 18 2012 at 1:41am
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Posted: Dec 18 2012 at 1:58am |
bless your heart for reading all of that F8
I agree that afro's post was not sarcasm but then again he couldn't be serious because he hasn't hit any of those "markers" either
Edited by rickysrose - Dec 18 2012 at 2:07am
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Posted: Dec 18 2012 at 2:04am |
f8dagrate wrote:
Becky wrote:
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FACT: Just because a woman is past 35, single and childless DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUATE BITTERNESS and BAD CHOICES. This is an incredibly sexist and presumptuous assumption that does not take into account many factors such as:'
No, it does not mean it's your fault.
You need to catch a clue though and I don't know WHY the Black community is always ignorant of this subject.
Black women (in America) are the LEAST married and the least marriageable group in the country. This has been studied and documented at least for the last 30 years or so. This is when I became aware of this.
Why? Because throughout the country there is a 2 to 1 ratio of Black women to Black men. That is a huge problem and if we count EDUCATED and well to do Black men to Black women... the numbers are even ... lower. Overall you have to discount all the Black men that don't have enough sense to .. stay of prison, or are involved in criminal enterprises or are gay or into White girls, or unemployed etc ... so that what's left - the number of ELIABLE marriageable men is pretty small. Pitiful.
I remember back in the late 1980's when the ratio of Black women to Black men in Atlanta was ... 16 to 1! I remember CNN or some group writing an article saying that Black women had a greater chance of being held hostage by a Terrorist ... then they were to get married.
Why because Black men to do limit themselves to only dating Black women – but Black limit themselves to ONLY dating Black men. DUH! There are not enough B lack men.
So it falls on Black women to source a partner from a non-black pool of men. But of course people are so delusional about this basic fact ... they would rather squabble over the few Black men that are marriage material or SHARE these men (so you waste time with a bunch of liars and cheaters) or sit home alone be bitter about not being in a solid relationship.
Wake up Black women. Open your eyes. Stop pretending.
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wth does this have to do with the situation the op talking bout tho Becky?
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She finds a way to slip that, some form of that, or some form of "the maj. of black men are un-husbandable" into every post she makes, regardless of the thread topic. Bless you for reading far enough to highlight, though. 
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Doesn't erybody say Cri-muh?
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Posted: Dec 18 2012 at 2:44am |
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once Afro told ricky to go have kids or something. I was like  . It sounds sexist, shouldn't have to explain why... |
i must have missed this too... 
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Posted: Dec 18 2012 at 2:56am |
Gkisses wrote:
I liked it more when it wasnt sarcasm...
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lol you evil..
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