| nitabug wrote:|
It's better to do what is right for your situation.
no harm no foul...I don't understand how this post is relatable , this isn't a pro choice pro life thread
this is a why would you be a bad parent instead of getting an abortion thread or a would you feel better leading a person to not get an abortion knowing they are gonna be a bad person thread visa versa........
I have a few examples.....a person I know gotten pregnant at 17, she wasn't raised by her parents, wasn't really raised at all, and her aunt/grandparents were mad because they thought she got an abortion....she ended up having the baby and dumped him off every chance she got until she got married and had two more children...there is a difference in how she interacts with her oldest child vs the other two...and he feels it and has problems because of it
another friend I know got at 16 by her boyfriend who thought she was "gonna marry" she kept the baby against his wishes and her families, but it actually was for the better in the long run....she kept her athletic scholarship, finished college, owns her own business, and her son is very intelligent and happy...the father is only in the picture to instagram flex, but really has no affiliation with child except for bdays, Christmas, and father day, I always felt bad for suggesting it but I knew she would be alone, he even asked me to persuade her to have one
another friend got pregnant by a married man, got the abortion, and regrets it to this day, and was really traumatized by it I believe she had some complications....
another person I know of girlfriend had several abortions against his wishes because she didn't trust their relation stability and once he found out he blasted her and called her a killer, he eventually got someone else pregnant, he struggles financially and living in an apartment her parents provided for them
my DH is strongly against them, and get's P'D off when I suggest them for other people.....but in the same breath is upset when he sees bad parenting or abuse