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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote journeytolong Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 18 2013 at 9:41pm
Well kudos to coming up here and asking for advice. I would literally kill her with kindness to the point that she becomes paranoid then when she least expects it, I strike! lol
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If she had given you the book, it would mean respect.
The fact that she gave you the movie shows that she thinks you need a white savior just like the maids on the movie.
The book is much more interesting and show blacks thinking, not needing the help of whites to think.
The movie is LAME and shows silly things such as the fat housekeeper (Minny) leaving her abusive husband only because her boss said she wanted her to work for her forever. It even says in the movie "with the help of her boss, Minny left her husband".

I would thank her for lending me the movie and give it back. If she says it is a present, you can either keep it or just say "no thanks". Don't show anger, don't show that you are upset. That's exactly what she wants to see.
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In any case, I wouldn't let that slide. I'd repay her gesture in kind what a dvd of my own, the type to leave her shook
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Some bitch at my job tried to give me her copy of that book. I was like "no". 
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lol why do these pasty O's think we are not in tune with the struggle? What is the real purpose of them "gifting" us with books like The Help? To show us that not all of them are bad people?
Gimme a break Ermm
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I returned the movie today, thanked her and let her know we don't share the same taste in movies.
She seemed to want to chat about the movie so I turned the conversation to my new house and the recent unfair pay cuts in her dep. LOL


Thanks for All the advice. Hug
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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

I returned the movie today, thanked her and let her know we don't share the same taste in movies.
She seemed to want to chat about the movie so I turned the conversation to my new house and the recent unfair pay cuts in her dep. LOL


Thanks for All the advice. Hug


you should of chatted to find out what her point was in giving you the movie, and her opinion of it...
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Originally posted by Lilnicka4u2nv Lilnicka4u2nv wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

I returned the movie today, thanked her and let her know we don't share the same taste in movies.
She seemed to want to chat about the movie so I turned the conversation to my new house and the recent unfair pay cuts in her dep. LOL


Thanks for All the advice. Hug


you should of chatted to find out what her point was in giving you the movie, and her opinion of it...

Im not that strong, I didn't want to spend too much time with her.
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Originally posted by Addicted19034 Addicted19034 wrote:

Bake her a pie




I didn't even laugh...I cackled from somewhere deep within    .
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