a sew in should not hurt

It appears to me that she has a fine hair texture which would make all that tension even worse on her hair. It also seems like the stylist doesn't care because she is very clearly complaining that it hurts. The stylist is just standing there laughing and smiling. When she left that break, I would have not looked back and kept going.

If your tender headed a sew in is definitely going to hurt regardless of how tight the person braids. Reason being its pulling your hair which does what??? Hurt! And you should only construct a sew in with loose braids if you only want to have it in for like a month. Why? Loose braids unravel real easy; especially if you have short fine hair.

Well I don't think that the stylist made it painful for one she clearly says that "no one didn't say it will hurt that much to get your hair braided" so I'm guessing she never had any sort of braids before .plus the braids didn't look all that tight to me she was rob ably tender headed because she ne'er death with getting braids before. Secondly she has a fine grade of hair that is a little short where the stylist had to add synthetic hair which made the pain or tension she was feeling... When most of us was growing up we used to get our hair braided by the Africans or our parents did it so we built a pain tolerance for braids. Just as she will build a pain tolerance to getting sew ins she started when she was an adult so she is not as developed with her scalp taking that like most of us maybe. I know ppl who cry when getting their hair blowed dried d it's not even because it was rough t just wasn't something they grew up with ad been accustomed too..

I've sewn in my own install too tight before and was not taking that ish down.  It loosened up after a day so I was fine. Of course it didn't feel tight until I finished installing the whole thing.