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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Africans come up to me and ask me where I'm from. Like really foreign born Africans...
I get Nigeria and Ghana the most. I really need to find out.
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african people have been asking me if im african alot too.. it just started about a year ago. im curious to know now
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Africans come up to me and ask me where I'm from. Like really foreign born Africans...
I get Nigeria and Ghana the most. I really need to find out.
Share where you had it done op


african people have been asking me if im african alot too.. it just started about a year ago. im curious to know now
 
I get this all the time too. People have assumed I was from cameroun, the ivory coast, the congo, and many more
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We are all African.
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Jolie, sango nini?

Was your husband/Congolese ex from the Luba tribe? When it comes to tribalism they do not play.
A Luba will only marry another Luba (or a white person). 

edited to add: I know a few who were married to people from other tribes, and left their spouses to get with their fellow Luba. It was messy. You couldn't have parties or gatherings for fear  of all the ensuing drama. 


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Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

Jolie, sango nini?

Was your husband/Congolese ex from the Luba tribe? When it comes to tribalism they do not play.
A Luba will only marry another Luba (or a white person). 

edited to add: I know a few who were married to people from other tribes, and left their spouses to get with their fellow Luba. It was messy. You couldn't have parties or gatherings for fear  of all the ensuing drama. 
No, he wasn't Luba. Same tribe as Mobutu. The thing is, they were really nice to the white wives in their family but not to me. I guess they just didn't like me. And when the family doesn't like you, it's a difficult situation. I felt he didn't stick up for me like a husband shoud support his wife. Not that I expected him to divorce his family, but at least make it clear that I'm his wife and that I'm to be respected. Anyway, it's ancient history


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OP...You paid $300 for that service....As much as Ive looked into doing something like that... i want to know how legit it is before giving them 300 dollars worth of dollars.
How did you learn about them?
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

Jolie, sango nini?

Was your husband/Congolese ex from the Luba tribe? When it comes to tribalism they do not play.
A Luba will only marry another Luba (or a white person). 



lol Some Africans be cold blooded on the relationship tip. I remember I was talking to this one African girl and I was like we need to get together and build, have beautiful black babies and she was like she could only marry someone from her culture so I was like cool. But then a couple months later I saw her out with this pale ass white dude and I approached her like "What is this"and she was like "Nicca geet dee fucc away from me, I don't wont yow black ass"
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 11 2012 at 3:39pm
so shad, whats so important about acceptance?

what would you lik to achieve in the long run

and if you were talking to some naija dudes the i can say im not surprised at the 'eff that homie you arent one of us' you received
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Oh, he was  Ngala/Ngbande.  

Well, I give you a big Hug It's his loss. 

My co-worker married an African-American and her parents invited her ex Nigerian BF to their engagement party. Talk about awkward. 


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