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Afrocentchic 
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 Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 2:38pm |
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^ AfroC  . It's always so good to see you  .
Not to mention if you are in close proximity the pepper spray can affect you as well, or perhaps get on other people.
I used to ride the trains in DC and luckily this never happened to me (at least not that I was aware of). I really have no idea what I'd do in that situation.
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 It's always good to see you to sis <3 I saw you posted and had to come out of lurkdom. 
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 2:38pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
Organic wrote:
Finesseful wrote:
You don't feel brave & heroic when a strange man whip his dick out next to you outta the blue. *shrug* |
beebeexx wrote:
amen... when a strange man whips his duck out all you see is a weapon...
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These two posts alone say enough. I'm also noticing the responses of the women who have actually experience this as opposed to those who haven't, and what their hypothetical reactions would be.
Not to dismiss or be flippant, but men are a threat, and many women may feel that it is better to sit silently and 'comply' for fear that if they lash out, he may turn violent and physically assault them.
Women are prey, and these sick SOB's know it.
As strong as I am (for a girl I can really kick some ass...), whenever I am confronted by a man, I know that I could never win if I didn't have some type of weapon.
Be safe, ladies. Please be safe.
Nancy, I hope you aren't too traumatized *hug*. This is just another unfair lesson women unfortunately have to learn to get us to alter our behaviour to fit the likes of perverted men.
See, men don't have to deal with this crap, which is why their responses to rape culture mean absolutely naught to me. |
All of this. you just sit and wait for it to be over and pray he doesnt become violent. sad world we live in 
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It's so sad that the overall atmosphere in this thread is one of defeat and vulnerability. It's crazy to think about the overt sexual predatory climate women live in on a daily basis .
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 2:39pm |
Afrocentchic wrote:
Organic wrote:
^ AfroC . It's always so good to see you .
Not to mention if you are in close proximity the pepper spray can affect you as well, or perhaps get on other people.
I used to ride the trains in DC and luckily this never happened to me (at least not that I was aware of). I really have no idea what I'd do in that situation.
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It's always good to see you to sis <3 I saw you posted and had to come out of lurkdom. |
That warms my heart   .
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 3:09pm |
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So sorry you experienced this. There's a campaign in many cities to report these incidents... but wouldn't you expect that most reports are met with "What do you want us to do?" SMH
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 3:42pm |
Thank you ladies for being so supportive. I'm okay, I won't be scarred for life. At least he didn't try anything. Alot of these comments a reeking of rape culture, but I'm sleep tho.
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 3:49pm |
Finesseful wrote:
Thank you ladies for being so supportive.
I'm okay, I won't be scarred for life. At least he didn't try anything.
Alot of these comments a reeking of rape culture, but I'm sleep tho.
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That's what I'm saying.
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 3:54pm |
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hahahhaha dat heck dere funny badd
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 3:55pm |
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Oh I am so sorry u must of felt so violated I would been scarred out my damn mind I woulda been screaming
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 6:55pm |
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That is really disgusting. There are so many weirdos and sickos in the world. Thank God he didn't try to touch you or anything.
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