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Originally posted by Marmonette Marmonette wrote:

I find it sad that this has happened to so many women.
 
 
This. Seems to be some type of common occurence. Lots of sick people live among us.
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Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

You don't feel brave & heroic when a strange man whip his dick out next to you outta the blue. *shrug*

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

amen... when a strange man whips his duck out all you see is a weapon...

These two posts alone say enough. I'm also noticing the responses of the women who have actually experience this as opposed to those who haven't, and what their hypothetical reactions would be. 

Not to dismiss or be flippant, but men are a threat, and many women may feel that it is better to sit silently and 'comply' for fear that if they lash out, he may turn violent and physically assault them.

Women are prey, and these sick SOB's know it.

As strong as I am (for a girl I can really kick some ass...), whenever I am confronted by a man, I know that I could never win if I didn't have some type of weapon.

Be safe, ladies. Please be safe.

Nancy, I hope you aren't too traumatized *hug*. This is just another unfair lesson women unfortunately have to learn to get us to alter our behaviour to fit the likes of perverted men. 

See, men don't have to deal with this crap, which is why their responses to rape culture mean absolutely naught to me. 
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

I don't think ppl are bold enough to do it n ow like they did back in
the day. Everyone has a camera on their phones now. click click copy n
paste to worldstar.com



Yes, they are. Girl one of the instances this happened to me was during madea goes to jail. This nga beat his penis from the first trailer to 2 min into the film before I totally grasped what was happening.
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Originally posted by Organic Organic wrote:

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

You don't feel brave & heroic when a strange man whip his dick out next to you outta the blue. *shrug*

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

amen... when a strange man whips his duck out all you see is a weapon...

These two posts alone say enough. I'm also noticing the responses of the women who have actually experience this as opposed to those who haven't, and what their hypothetical reactions would be. 

Not to dismiss or be flippant, but men are a threat, and many women may feel that it is better to sit silently and 'comply' for fear that if they lash out, he may turn violent and physically assault them.

Women are prey, and these sick SOB's know it.

As strong as I am (for a girl I can really kick some ass...), whenever I am confronted by a man, I know that I could never win if I didn't have some type of weapon.

Be safe, ladies. Please be safe.

Nancy, I hope you aren't too traumatized *hug*. This is just another unfair lesson women unfortunately have to learn to get us to alter our behaviour to fit the likes of perverted men. 

See, men don't have to deal with this crap, which is why their responses to rape culture mean absolutely naught to me. 

This. The responses from some of the women in this thread are frightening and shameful. A man exposing themselves may be capable of a lot more. Attempting to get up, run, bring attention to him may cause more harm than good.   


Being petrified by some strange man with gall to expose himself and participate in a sex act next to you is natural response.

Fumbling through your purse for some pepper spray or trying to get away from someone like that is harder than it seems.
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Originally posted by Organic Organic wrote:

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

You don't feel brave & heroic when a strange man whip his dick out next to you outta the blue. *shrug*

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

amen... when a strange man whips his duck out all you see is a weapon...

These two posts alone say enough. I'm also noticing the responses of the women who have actually experience this as opposed to those who haven't, and what their hypothetical reactions would be. 

Not to dismiss or be flippant, but men are a threat, and many women may feel that it is better to sit silently and 'comply' for fear that if they lash out, he may turn violent and physically assault them.

Women are prey, and these sick SOB's know it.

As strong as I am (for a girl I can really kick some ass...), whenever I am confronted by a man, I know that I could never win if I didn't have some type of weapon.

Be safe, ladies. Please be safe.

Nancy, I hope you aren't too traumatized *hug*. This is just another unfair lesson women unfortunately have to learn to get us to alter our behaviour to fit the likes of perverted men. 

See, men don't have to deal with this crap, which is why their responses to rape culture mean absolutely naught to me. 

All of this. you just sit and wait for it to be over and pray he doesnt become violent. sad world we live in Ouch
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i will never ride a train or bus ever again. i didn't know this was the norm. and for it to happen to so many of yall at young ages is f'd up.
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^ AfroC Hug. It's always so good to see you Smile.

Not to mention if you are in close proximity the pepper spray can affect you as well, or perhaps get on other people.

I used to ride the trains in DC and luckily this never happened to me (at least not that I was aware of). I really have no idea what I'd do in that situation. 

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Originally posted by texasmami0117 texasmami0117 wrote:

i will never ride a train or bus ever again. i didn't know this was the norm. and for it to happen to so many of yall at young ages is f'd up.
Girl yes, and they will follow you home.
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Originally posted by Organic Organic wrote:

^ AfroC Hug. It's always so good to see you Smile.

Not to mention if you are in close proximity the pepper spray can affect you as well, or perhaps get on other people.

I used to ride the trains in DC and luckily this never happened to me (at least not that I was aware of). I really have no idea what I'd do in that situation. 

Hug It's always good to see you to sis <3 I saw you posted and had to come out of lurkdom. LOL
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by Organic Organic wrote:

Originally posted by Finesseful Finesseful wrote:

You don't feel brave & heroic when a strange man whip his dick out next to you outta the blue. *shrug*

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

amen... when a strange man whips his duck out all you see is a weapon...

These two posts alone say enough. I'm also noticing the responses of the women who have actually experience this as opposed to those who haven't, and what their hypothetical reactions would be. 

Not to dismiss or be flippant, but men are a threat, and many women may feel that it is better to sit silently and 'comply' for fear that if they lash out, he may turn violent and physically assault them.

Women are prey, and these sick SOB's know it.

As strong as I am (for a girl I can really kick some ass...), whenever I am confronted by a man, I know that I could never win if I didn't have some type of weapon.

Be safe, ladies. Please be safe.

Nancy, I hope you aren't too traumatized *hug*. This is just another unfair lesson women unfortunately have to learn to get us to alter our behaviour to fit the likes of perverted men. 

See, men don't have to deal with this crap, which is why their responses to rape culture mean absolutely naught to me. 

All of this. you just sit and wait for it to be over and pray he doesnt become violent. sad world we live in Ouch

It's so sad that the overall atmosphere in this thread is one of defeat and vulnerability. It's crazy to think about the overt sexual predatory climate women live in on a daily basis Ouch.
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