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Originally posted by jmarie jmarie wrote:

Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by jmarie jmarie wrote:

I've wanted to call dss on him so bad. I feel so bad for his daughter, what girl wants to live like that.
14 is an age where she is Able to call if she wanted to. She can also voice her concern to live with mom if she wanted to. You might be breaking up the family and making things worse


She has told him she wants to live with her mother.
she should tell it to a judge, at that age the judges take it into consideration and usually listen to the kids
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Originally posted by jmarie jmarie wrote:

Ok I just called dss and was told to call another number for the city they live in. A haitian guy picked up, I said I wanted to make a report he hung up on me. I called back and spoke to A white woman she wanted to know dates of birth for the mother father and child. I don't know about the mother but I do know the father and child's. While I was telling her the story she just kept saying what else and is that all, I don't feel like she took me too seriously. She asked me if I was mandated to report I asked her what that was, she said a doctor or teacher or something like that. She wanted to know specific dates and how long I've known the family. I don't have specific dates I told her it was an ongoing thing for yrs. She asked me what would I like to happen for the family, I told her maybe he needs rehab and counseling. I said I wanted to remain anonymous, and that was it. She asked me how much he drank and if he passed out  from it. he doesn't.
I still felt by the tone of her voice that she felt it was no big deal.

 
I told you though from the beginning that it was probably not a report. You don't know enough. I'm not being mean I just don't want you to have unrealistic expectations. She was trying to give you a chance to give more information than you were giving.
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I do commend you though for getting over your fears and making the report to do your part to make sure this child is okay. You have done what you can now all you can do is pray for her.
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how you know he was haitian tho?
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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

how you know he was haitian tho?

 I'm american but I've mostly dated Haitian men. I can tell.
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Good job O/P
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Never mind your own business when it comes to the care and safety of a child.

He's clearly depressed. And the girl's welfare is in danger. I would speak to the mother, but also impress upon her that he needs help before he spirals into hard drug use or suicide.
Hopefully she still cares enough to try and get him help

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he does need treatment for whatever he is dealing with ... not sure if he is simply overwhelmed or if he has depression but it cant continue as is ... she needs to be with someone with a healthy state of mind that can help her grow into her full potential




it could be my west indian upbringing but the house shouldnt be filthy .. a 16 year old can clean


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damn bhm. OP, have you talked to anyone else in real life about this?
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