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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? : Cause we can and we always have...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=90922">loveandpeace1984</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;14&nbsp;2013 at 8:45am<br /><br />Cause we can and we always have been. Enjoy yourmcomputers and internet invented by men.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? :   ShesalmostFlawless wrote: ...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;13&nbsp;2013 at 3:34pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ShesalmostFlawless" alt="Originally posted by ShesalmostFlawless" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ShesalmostFlawless wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Majesty02" alt="Originally posted by Majesty02" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Majesty02 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><br />&lt;font size="3" face="Times New Roman"&gt;<br /><br /></font>&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;" ="msonormal"=""&gt;<font size="3">&lt;font face="Calibri"&gt;The more I date black men the more I'm starting to get<br />turned off by them. I'm really trying my hardest not to put all in the same<br />category...but what else can I say? It seems like majority of them (between<br />ages 18-35) try to live vicariously through what they hear in rap music. They<br />all claim to date "bad b*tches" that "model" etc. But when<br />you see the chicks they date, they look below average. Or they claim to have a certian level of status, but you never see any proof of it. Some of these men are<br />full of themselves for absolutely no reason. (Generally speaking) He could be a bum, with no<br />obtainable life goals, unattractive, and no formal education, but he'll still<br />go around bragging like he's God's gift to women. I feel like society has made<br />these men these men think that their hot commodity, because statics &lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;“allegedly”</strong> claim that 70% of black<br />women are single. &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;So a lot of these men<br />have the “Fake it till you make it” mentality, but I’m just not buying it. I<br />gladly move on to the next, because in my opinion men come a dime a dozen. I’m<br />not bitter, I’m just starting to get more and more turned off by these f..kd up<br />personalities. &lt;!--?: prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /--&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;</font></font></p>&lt;font size="3" face="Times New Roman"&gt;<br /><br /></font></td></tr></table><br /><div><br /></div><div>God bless you for this post!It's even worse now with 2 chains and other rappers making them feel powerful.It's a mess honey.</div></td></tr></table> Actually believing this is a mess.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=90922">loveandpeace1984</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;13&nbsp;2013 at 11:45am<br /><br />Coons be cooning ]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? :   sexyandfamous wrote:I don&amp;#039;t...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Mar&nbsp;13&nbsp;2013 at 10:13am<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by sexyandfamous" alt="Originally posted by sexyandfamous" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>sexyandfamous wrote:</strong><br /><br />I don't really think they are arrogant...more like lazy. They expect the woman to hit on them because they are just used to it. Lame.<br /><br /></td></tr></table> Hmm, it could be said thst vice versa is lazy.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? : I don&amp;#039;t really think they...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=89242">sexyandfamous</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 6:11pm<br /><br />I don't really think they are arrogant...more like lazy. They expect the woman to hit on them because they are just used to it. Lame.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=56268">Twisted_Angel</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;19&nbsp;2013 at 4:10pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Addicted19034" alt="Originally posted by Addicted19034" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Addicted19034 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by leftywefty" alt="Originally posted by leftywefty" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>leftywefty wrote:</strong><br /><br /><BR>There are a lot of decent black men out there.&nbsp;You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.<DIV>Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better</DIV></td></tr></table> <BR><BR><BR>Girl, BOOM</td></tr></table> <DIV></DIV><DIV>Exactly you jus gonna attrack the same type of dude, different color.</DIV>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;06&nbsp;2013 at 1:13pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by thebombdotkom" alt="Originally posted by thebombdotkom" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>thebombdotkom wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" alt="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BoutThatLife wrote:</strong><br /><br />I will just say this:<br /><br />Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc<br /><br />But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?</td></tr></table><br /><br />This all day. <br /><br />I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.<br /></td></tr></table> Nothing like being racist against your own people.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? :    BoutThatLife wrote:I will...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=57831">thebombdotkom</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;31&nbsp;2013 at 2:32pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" alt="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BoutThatLife wrote:</strong><br /><br />I will just say this:<br><br>Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc<br><br>But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?</td></tr></table><br><br>This all day. <br><br>I don't understand why black women continue to defend and support black men when all they do is sh*t all over us.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=83176">Grapes25</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 10:51am<br /><br />Aside from the very generalized assumption of men being highly arrogant, I honestly feel that WOMEN are the arrogant ones these days- driven by societal expectations and standards. ( Although that applies to BOTH genders)<span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Grapes25 - Jan&nbsp;21&nbsp;2013 at 10:51am</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=90049">tamela10289</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;14&nbsp;2013 at 3:49pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Addicted19034" alt="Originally posted by Addicted19034" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Addicted19034 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by leftywefty" alt="Originally posted by leftywefty" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>leftywefty wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br />There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.<div>Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better</div></td></tr></table> <br /><br /><br />Girl, BOOM</td></tr></table> <br /><br />100% agreed]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=36854">Addicted19034</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;14&nbsp;2013 at 3:44pm<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by leftywefty" alt="Originally posted by leftywefty" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>leftywefty wrote:</strong><br /><br /><br />There are a lot of decent black men out there. You need to start figuring out why you are attracting a certain type. Just because YOU have trouble attracting good black men doesn't mean they don't exist.<div>Go ahead and date non black men but I bet you'll still attract the same dirt bags. smh at you thinking non black men are innately better</div></td></tr></table> <br /><br /><br />Girl, BOOM]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;13&nbsp;2013 at 9:33pm<br /><br />Hmm]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=81649">BoutThatLife</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;13&nbsp;2013 at 8:43pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by ImThatDiva" alt="Originally posted by ImThatDiva" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>ImThatDiva wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" alt="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BoutThatLife wrote:</strong><br /><br />I will just say this:<br><br>Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc<br><br>But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?</td></tr></table>So we should do the same thing? Just make the circle go round and round? Because we all know that's how problems get fixed, by adding to it.<br></td></tr></table><br><br>I just find it very work horse-ish to constantly take on the burden of extending themselves to people, who on average, don't do the same in return.<br><br>Problems get fixed if both parties decide to compromise and work on it. Not if one party is sh*tting on the other and the other party is browbeaten when they tell their perspective.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=90049">tamela10289</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;12&nbsp;2013 at 11:55pm<br /><br />I slightly disagree with some of these post. I've been in that same mind set before, but the past year or so my views have changed. I've noticed that the "arrogant" type of guys was the guy that I was going for at that time in my life. I didn't realize it until recently. The nice ones with some type of d@mn sense I unknowingly turned down, or sabotaged the relationship. So it may not be that's it most black men are arrogant, it's just the type of men you are allowing into your space. If you want better stop settling for less.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why are Men Soo Arrogant These days? :    Positive K wrote:   AriesBabe09...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50737">AriesBabe09</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:31pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Positive K" alt="Originally posted by Positive K" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Positive K wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by AriesBabe09" alt="Originally posted by AriesBabe09" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>AriesBabe09 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Majesty02" alt="Originally posted by Majesty02" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Majesty02 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><strong>Nah. Its not that deep everyone. I love black men, and will never entirely give up on them. Not all are the same yes I know. I was just vex that day, so I came on BHM to vent. But I'm good now <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></strong></td></tr></table><div>&nbsp;</div><div>I have those days too...I love blk men but right now I'm mad at them&nbsp;however&nbsp;I won't allow myslef to give up on them totally..... <font size="4">although the <strong>majority</strong> act the way you mentioned in your first post.</font></div></td></tr></table><br><br>you've met the majority of black men?<br></td></tr></table><div>&nbsp;</div><div>Pardon me.....the majority <em><strong>I</strong></em> have met.</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50737">AriesBabe09</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Jan&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 9:37am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Majesty02" alt="Originally posted by Majesty02" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Majesty02 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><strong>Nah. Its not that deep everyone. I love black men, and will never entirely give up on them. Not all are the same yes I know. I was just vex that day, so I came on BHM to vent. But I'm good now <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></strong></td></tr></table><div>&nbsp;</div><div>I have those days too...I love blk men but right now I'm mad at them&nbsp;however&nbsp;I won't allow myslef to give up on them totally..... although the <strong>majority</strong> act the way you mentioned in your first post.</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=88534">DarkestBeauty</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;27&nbsp;2012 at 12:51pm<br /><br /><p>I understand what you are saying and I've dated enough black men to know what you were experiencing. It's sad that alot of women are subject to these types of behaviors but the society will leave in allows it so that's what it is. You can try dating different types of black men or simply try other races it's good to try something new you may be getting those reactions from those men you met to lead you to someone else that will meet your expectations.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=42617">ImThatDiva</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 11:07pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Majesty02" alt="Originally posted by Majesty02" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Majesty02 wrote:</strong><br /><br /><strong>Nah. Its not that deep everyone. I love black men, and will never entirely give up on them. Not all are the same yes I know. I was just vex that day, so I came on BHM to vent. But I'm good now <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></strong></td></tr></table>That's good. Trust me though OP, maybe you should tap into another pool of guys and not the ones you usually go for. That way you don't run into the same mentality.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=42617">ImThatDiva</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 11:05pm<br /><br />OP, you need to get out of your little bubble and meet men who are about something. You sound like you only go after basic guys, hood guys that aren't trying to achieve much. Maybe if you up your standards. You won't run into these problems as much.<br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=42617">ImThatDiva</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 10:58pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" alt="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BoutThatLife wrote:</strong><br /><br />I will just say this:<br><br>Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc<br><br>But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?</td></tr></table>So we should do the same thing? Just make the circle go round and round? Because we all know that's how problems get fixed, by adding to it.<br><br><br><br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=49950">mtownchick</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;25&nbsp;2012 at 9:48pm<br /><br />That is the going norm these days along with a slew of thirsty women flocking just to get a piece of a man per se. You just gotta keep your head up and know that you are the prize. REAL MEN like a challenge and the majority of these women don't even know what that word means.....It will be ok...]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=83418">Majesty02</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;22&nbsp;2012 at 3:55pm<br /><br /><strong>Nah. Its not that deep everyone. I love black men, and will never entirely give up on them. Not all are the same yes I know. I was just vex that day, so I came on BHM to vent. But I'm good now <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley2.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></strong>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=56268">Twisted_Angel</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;08&nbsp;2012 at 8:11pm<br /><br />Sweetie you just attractin the wrong ones..]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50956">lanae</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;08&nbsp;2012 at 10:38am<br /><br /> <table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Prazol60" alt="Originally posted by Prazol60" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Prazol60 wrote:</strong><br /><br />Keep in mind that as you move up in life you'll meet different people who are more mature and different than those you have met now. There are many good men out there and maybe you haven't met any now but that doesn't mean you won't in the future. Keep trying and don't give up hope. <br /><br />Try joining and meet men at nice places such as church, civic groups, political meetings, four-year universities. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></td></tr></table> <br />And this]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=50956">lanae</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;08&nbsp;2012 at 10:34am<br /><br />Sounds like you need to go elsewhere to meet a different type of black man. If you go to a club playing Peter Pan ass music, ("I just need to know what that coochie like so one time is fine with me"/"She gotta big booty so I call her Big Booty") then don't be surprised if you keep meeting Peter Pan ass niccas. The "I don't wanna grow up. I wannabe a Toys R US kid" type of men come in all ages, races and income levels <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by lanae - Dec&nbsp;08&nbsp;2012 at 10:35am</span>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=12787">leftywefty</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;08&nbsp;2012 at 1:38am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" alt="Originally posted by BoutThatLife" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>BoutThatLife wrote:</strong><br /><br />I will just say this:<br><br>Its very interesting that when a black woman generalizes black men on a female message board, most people come in and tell the woman she shouldn't be generalizing, etc<br><br>But ever lurk a black make message board? Do they do the same when negative things are said about black women?</td></tr></table><div><br></div><div><br></div><div>I don't know nor do I care what some mystery men on a message board are saying. All I know is that my father, brother, and spouse are exceptional people and are all black men.&nbsp;</div><div>Just because someone else makes blanket generalizations about people doesn't mean I have to do the same. I have no reason to be bitter or spiteful.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=23790">neeneebaby</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;06&nbsp;2012 at 5:47pm<br /><br />I think OP just needs to pick better men in general. It seems that she is going after these guys that claim to have "this status". Well if they all claim to have this status that means your type of men you like to date&nbsp;isn't&nbsp;that great. your bound to keep getting hurt.&nbsp;<div><br></div><div>If your in college try to get to know people in your major you never know you might meet the man of your dreams who is the very opposite from your type.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;06&nbsp;2012 at 5:35pm<br /><br /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley36.gif" border="0" align="middle" /> What?! Again, no one is defending sorry men. Just because some idiots on some board go anti-black women doesn't mean there aren't good black men out there, here or wherever.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=81649">BoutThatLife</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;06&nbsp;2012 at 4:03pm<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Mixer" alt="Originally posted by Mixer" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Mixer wrote:</strong><br /><br />I can't believe how many times some of these comments have been thanked.</td></tr></table><br>You cant call me a liar tho<br><br>A lot of women are quick to defend men when their men will not do the same. Instead of trying to admonish me for telling the truth as I see it, why not go on those male dominated sites and ask them why they do what they do?<br><br>Instead you're trying to be like "be quiet woman, just accept that black men dont care when you're generalized but you're wrong for not jumping up and saving their honor. Cuz 2 wrongs dont make a right!!"&nbsp; Come on I see through that<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley12.gif" border="0" alt="Sleepy" title="Sleepy" /><br>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=71493">Mixer</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 351550<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Dec&nbsp;06&nbsp;2012 at 12:22pm<br /><br />I can't believe how many times some of these comments have been thanked.]]>
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