Black Hair Media Forum : when you bump into an ex.. http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:20:04 +0000 Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:44:15 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=351930 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : Wildfire wrote:they dont...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997712.html#9997712 Author: OrriannaRose
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:44pm

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

they dont got no copies of me nowheres




Stern Smile
]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:44:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997712.html#9997712 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : No one I date ever seems to have...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997702.html#9997702 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:40pm

No one I date ever seems to have a type

My ex's gfs don't look like me

My currents ex's ain't even my race sooo yeah
]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:40:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997702.html#9997702 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : ImThatDiva wrote:I&#039;d...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997700.html#9997700 Author: Derri
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:39pm

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

I'd find it interesting but then I'd go right back to not giving a damn.


]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:39:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997700.html#9997700 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : I&#039;d find it interesting but...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997690.html#9997690 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:35pm

I'd find it interesting but then I'd go right back to not giving a damn.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:35:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997690.html#9997690 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : My 2 of my exes gf&#039;s look...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997682.html#9997682 Author: nitabug
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:29pm

My 2 of my exes gf's look better than me.

]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:29:13 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997682.html#9997682 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : lolI&#039;d probably just think...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997670.html#9997670 Author: PurpleHaze
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:22pm

lol
I'd probably just think he has a type.

my GFs say my hub looks like one of my exes. I didn't notice it until they mentioned.
]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2012 19:22:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9997670.html#9997670 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : I&#039;m fairly sure my ex has...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981459.html#9981459 Author: nekamarie83
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 11:12am

I'm fairly sure my ex has taken a time out since I broke up with him. If he hasn't, I think he would try to find a copy. The closet he'd get is a mutual friend of ours. Since this isn't horseshoes or hand grenades, he'd still be WAY off. Anyone after me will PALE in comparison.

My reaction would be, " !! Nice try though."

I wouldn't particularly feel anything. We're on good terms and talk, but he's not my problem/concern anymore. ]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 11:12:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981459.html#9981459 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : BeatriceBean wrote:&#034;Don&#039;t...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981401.html#9981401 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:48am

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

"Don't you ever get to thinkin' you're irreplaceable"

 
If I felt anything, it would be that.
 
A guy I dated waaaaaay back in the day got with just about every tall, light-skinned woman with long hair from Boston to Miami. It wasn't particularly flattering.

YOU BETTER QUOTE THE QUEEN!

three snaps in a z formation
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:48:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981401.html#9981401 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : Me neither . One of a kind baby....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981392.html#9981392 Author: nala52808
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:44am

Me neither . One of a kind baby.]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:44:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981392.html#9981392 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : they dont got no copies of me...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981390.html#9981390 Author: Wildfire
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:43am

they dont got no copies of me nowheres




Stern Smile
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:43:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981390.html#9981390 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : &#034;Don&#039;t you ever get...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981384.html#9981384 Author: BeatriceBean
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:39am

"Don't you ever get to thinkin' you're irreplaceable"

 
If I felt anything, it would be that.
 
A guy I dated waaaaaay back in the day got with just about every tall, light-skinned woman with long hair from Boston to Miami. It wasn't particularly flattering.
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:39:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981384.html#9981384 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : solo wrote:My ex is dating...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981344.html#9981344 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:17am

Originally posted by solo solo wrote:

My ex is dating someone who looks a lot like me except:
She's skinnier than me and has no ass
Didn't play a sport
Is older than both of us and still getting her bachelors
Not too cute in the face and has ratchet tendencies

However she is Greek and when he crossed he got him a Greek girl. And she loves him way more than I ever did... That dude was hard to deal with.

So he's doing pretty well.


?
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:17:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981344.html#9981344 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : id be flattered.but i know that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981333.html#9981333 Author: coconess
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:10am

id be flattered. 
but i know that he'd never find another like me so id snicker 


]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:10:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981333.html#9981333 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : nahi seem to always go for the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981332.html#9981332 Author: Chyna_Li
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:09am

nah
i seem to always go for the same types as well
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:09:53 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981332.html#9981332 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : khivey wrote:Nope..but I see...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981329.html#9981329 Author: Naturalchick30
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:08am

Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Nope..but I see this with other guys I know.

I notice that I resembled the mother or sister with exes..it is pretty creepy and usually I don't notice it until someone else points it out. I remember for a while I would always ask to see family pictures and I would look to see if there was some sort of resemblance and it was the case LOL
 
Lol I get this all of the time.  Strangers have even mistaken us for siblingsStern Smile
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:08:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981329.html#9981329 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : he has a type but the only thing...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981314.html#9981314 Author: eanaj5
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:02am

he has a type but the only thing me and his current have in common is the we're light skin. i'm his preferred look tho cuz she skinny with no azz Approve He lauce Tongue]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 10:02:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981314.html#9981314 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : ummmm its happened to me twice....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981267.html#9981267 Author: goodm3
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 9:39am

ummmm its happened to me twice. guy #1- i wasn't dating him with marriage in mind so it really didn't matter. We looked so much a like, we could've been sisters.  guy #2 - she didn't look anything like me. (i didn't think she was attractive) but she was giving it up and i wasn't....so ya'll do the math

other than that...i've never ran to any of my execs after a breakup so i've never had to deal with it. 

my exes don't look alike. 
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 09:39:05 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981267.html#9981267 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : My ex is dating someone who looks...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981089.html#9981089 Author: solo
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:49am

My ex is dating someone who looks a lot like me except:
She's skinnier than me and has no ass
Didn't play a sport
Is older than both of us and still getting her bachelors
Not too cute in the face and has ratchet tendencies

However she is Greek and when he crossed he got him a Greek girl. And she loves him way more than I ever did... That dude was hard to deal with.

So he's doing pretty well. ]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 07:49:44 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981089.html#9981089 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : If an ex somehow manages to get...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981086.html#9981086 Author: Midna
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:47am

If an ex somehow manages to get a carbon copy of me, I will be amazed.

Then I'll be hella creeped out.
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 07:47:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981086.html#9981086 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : ShadyLady wrote:I would just...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981084.html#9981084 Author: Midna
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:46am

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

I would just assume she's his type, just like I was.

I did have an ex who used to tell me I was the first/only brown skinned girl he talked to cuz he usually liked "redbones" (his words). I would see pics or Facebooks, and he definitely was not checking for us brown-dark women. He used to say that sh!t like I should be honored, which is part of the reason we ended.

Every chick I've seen him with since, has been a brown chick, so I kinda feel like I made him open up his horizons .


Why would you even accept a man like this.. No wonder you two broke up, he sounds ignorant. LOL
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 07:46:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981084.html#9981084 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : EPITOME wrote:naww she&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981081.html#9981081 Author: Midna
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:44am

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

naww she's white and extremely unattractive. i might post a pic cause it's late night/early morning and im tired of writing this paper.


..


]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 07:44:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981081.html#9981081 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : aww yall i feel asleep ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981036.html#9981036 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:04am

aww yall i feel asleep Cry]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 07:04:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981036.html#9981036 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : All my exes live in diff states....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981019.html#9981019 Author: Addicted19034
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 6:11am

All my exes live in diff states.

]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 06:11:54 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981019.html#9981019 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : Nope..but I see this with other...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981018.html#9981018 Author: khivey
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 6:11am

Nope..but I see this with other guys I know.

I notice that I resembled the mother or sister with exes..it is pretty creepy and usually I don't notice it until someone else points it out. I remember for a while I would always ask to see family pictures and I would look to see if there was some sort of resemblance and it was the case LOL
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 06:11:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981018.html#9981018 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : Eden. wrote:lol ye she had...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981012.html#9981012 Author: afrokock
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 5:37am

Originally posted by Eden. Eden. wrote:

lol ye she had piercings and thick rimmed frames and everything. it was crazy. she was just a lil taller and had more tats.

i knew he had a type tho
lol.. ]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 05:37:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9981012.html#9981012 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : yea this happened before i was...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980971.html#9980971 Author: missunfoolish
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 4:35am

yea this happened before

i was just like.. eh whatever
kind of annoyed though lol
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 04:35:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980971.html#9980971 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : lol ye she had piercings and thick...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980951.html#9980951 Author: Eden.
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:44am

lol ye she had piercings and thick rimmed frames and everything. it was crazy. she was just a lil taller and had more tats.

i knew he had a type tho
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 03:44:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980951.html#9980951 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : *Waits for busted O pic* lolI&#039;d...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980947.html#9980947 Author: carolina cutie
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:21am

*Waits for busted O pic* lol

I'd perceive it as my exes having personality/physical likes that attracted them to the new boo.

Now if the new boo looked just like me and had a similar personality, I would be freaked out more than a little bit.LOL
]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 03:21:05 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980947.html#9980947 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : lol...@ the thought of him tryna...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980943.html#9980943 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:17am

lol...@ the thought of him tryna get a copy of me.]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 03:17:45 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980943.html#9980943 <![CDATA[when you bump into an ex.. : waits ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980941.html#9980941 Author: nycdiva357
Subject: 351930
Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:14am

waits]]> Mon, 10 Dec 2012 03:14:27 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/when-you-bump-into-an-ex_topic351930_post9980941.html#9980941