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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? :   Your knots need bleaching...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=48220">SistaHollywood</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;08&nbsp;2013 at 3:32am<br /><br /><font size="3"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><em>Your knots need bleaching that will help some then use the silicon pad . You alway have to tweak a unit when you buy it and more so a stock unit If your not comffortable bleaching the not with bleach you can faux bleach then with sally hansen spray for leg and then use makeup near your scalp color for the inside of your part. Hope that helps</em> <img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley2.gif" height="17" width="17" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></font></font>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? : o thats alot better...go going...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=61323">dorislesure</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;07&nbsp;2013 at 2:19am<br /><br />o thats alot better...go going<img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" /><img src="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/smileys/smiley1.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? : mayb u need just more of those...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=61323">dorislesure</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;07&nbsp;2013 at 2:18am<br /><br />mayb u need just more of those big hole ventilated with more hair.. &nbsp;&nbsp;<div><br></div>]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? : from looking at the pictures the...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=43003">ilovelife</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;06&nbsp;2013 at 7:35am<br /><br />from looking at the pictures the knots arent really the problem they looked like they have been bleached or altered in some way. its the fact the the unit is very light in density. The pads I use are CVS brand and they move like skin so you dont get that stiffness, if the silicone pads dont work for you you can try the coban wrap method but just keep in mind that because of the units density your going to have alot of lace showing&nbsp;]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? :    Yes it does look better...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67801">starliteboo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;06&nbsp;2013 at 6:27am<br /><br />Yes it does look better then before, when I use the silicon pads I cut them into strips and place it exactly where I want my part to be. I put a little foundation powder on the sticky side of the pad and it works pretty good for me. You said you are going to bleach the knots is the unit virgin hair or was it processed for color?I posted a picture of what my parts look like when I use the silicon pads.<div>&nbsp;</div><div><a href="http://i1122.photobucket.com/albums/l528/starliteboo/IMAG0216.jpg" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://i1122.photobucket.com/albums/l528/starliteboo/IMAG0216.jpg</a></div><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by starliteboo - Feb&nbsp;06&nbsp;2013 at 6:31am</span>]]>
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   <pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 06:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? :   the density is super light....]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=80140">sugabanana</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;06&nbsp;2013 at 6:16am<br /><br />the density is super light. You might want to darken the lace with rit dye. the lace is to light.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? : Actually just took some before...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=40304">bizchick86</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:50pm<br /><br />Actually just took some before seeing this! The left one of course is before adding the pad. I had to tweak the instructions a bit to work for me.  I used the Sally's for the knots and also to the pad since it was too light. That combo was too much though. Also using a whole pad made the part too thick and stiff, so it looked too much like a regular full head wig. After *plenty* of trial and error, I wiped away some of the sallys from the lace (got too orange!) and replaced the whole pad with a new one I cut in half and stretched to get flat. I also moved it *further* from the hairline, which worked better for me. Finally, since my part is still more orange than I'd like and I'm just hoping it fades when I wash, I fussed with the hair to have a messier part and disguise some of the orangeyness.<div><br></div><div>When I get a chance later, I'll also bleach the knots. It's a work in progress but definitely an improvement!</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><img src="http://i.imm.io/VjST.jpeg" height="360" width="360" border="0" /><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><img src="http://i.imm.io/VjOK.jpeg" height="360" width="360" border="0" /><br></div><div><img src="http://i.imm.io/VjXA.jpeg" height="394" width="500" border="0" /><br></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67801">starliteboo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 7:43pm<br /><br />Please update with pictures, the silicon pads can be purchased from CVS or Walgreens]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=40304">bizchick86</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 1:55pm<br /><br />I didn't put on any type of cap. Put the bad boy straight on my head from the box. But I'll look into the pads. Thanks starlite and my fellow BHMers!!]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=90832">Kashonda</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 1:20pm<br /><br />This thread is just what I was looking for. Thank you very much.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[what am I doing wrong?? : Yep silicon pads will help. Looks...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=30851">Blossom8186</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:58am<br /><br />Yep silicon pads will help. Looks like you have on a black wig cap....maybe its the color of the cap you have as well?]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=22982">Asia35</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:49am<br /><br /><a href="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/ways-of-creating-natural-scalp-appearance-&#111;n-lw_topic320008_page3.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><DIV>http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/ways-of-creating-natural-scalp-appearance-on-lw_topic320008_page3.html</DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV>&nbsp;</DIV><DIV><FONT color=#660099><strong></strong></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV></A>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=22982">Asia35</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:05am<br /><br />I agree with IloveLife. silicone pads]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67801">starliteboo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 10:00am<br /><br />You can read the info from this thread for help on creating a natural looking scalp<div>&nbsp;</div><div><a href="http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/faux-knot-bleaching-skin-sheets-for-closures_topic331910.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/faux-knot-bleaching-skin-sheets-for-closures_topic331910.html</a></div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=43003">ilovelife</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 9:42am<br /><br />use the silicone pads, you can get them from CVS the CVS brand for about $20.knots are normally that big, was this a stock unit? most stock units are light to medium density so thats pretty normal but once you find a natural scalp method that works for you, you should be good]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=40304">bizchick86</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 2:27am<br /><br />Is that what people normally do? Is it abnormal to have my lace look like this?&nbsp;<div><br></div><div>I emailed them and they responded immediately. But the vendor said that's how they all look. Show me the receipts!! Cause those YT gurus have their lace wigs lookin all kinds of natural and nothing like this mess.&nbsp;</div>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=67801">starliteboo</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;04&nbsp;2013 at 10:31pm<br /><br />Have you tried using the silicon pads to give it a more scalp appearance ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/member_profile.asp?PF=40304">bizchick86</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 354274<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> Feb&nbsp;04&nbsp;2013 at 10:15pm<br /><br />Hey ladies, <br><br>Got my lisa raye wig from rpg show and was extra excited. So, I love everything but the part...which is the most important thing! My lace is *extra* visible and doesn't look real at all. I get that I need to bleach the knots, but this is more of an issue with the lace, which seems like its holes are too big.  I just plopped it on my head. Am I missing a step? Do I need to be wearing something underneath so the lace blends? This wig cost me an arm and a leg...please help!<br><br>a pic is here:&nbsp;<div><img src="http://images49.fotki.com/v109/filepb2J/b6b33/8/1852598/11019005/20130204_230442.jpg" height="300" width="400" border="0" /><br></div><span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by bizchick86 - Feb&nbsp;05&nbsp;2013 at 2:20am</span>]]>
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