Black Hair Media Forum : This is terribly sad - where is the justice? http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Sat, 25 May 2013 00:58:17 +0000 Thu, 17 Jan 2013 16:32:14 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=353557 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : ThoughtCouture wrote:is this...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081114.html#10081114 Author: ImThatDiva
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 4:32pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?

If she was actually forced, they don't even need to go on statutory, they can go on rape alone
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 16:32:14 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081114.html#10081114 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : sometimes i wish all of this text...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081078.html#10081078 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 4:14pm

sometimes i wish all of this text messaging, internet revolution, etc etc never happened.  there's so much good that has come from it but the social cost is astounding.  ]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 16:14:33 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081078.html#10081078 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : I can&#039;t stop blaming the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081076.html#10081076 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 4:12pm

I can't stop blaming the school. How incompetent. I would like to imagine that they did inform the mum. 



A GIRL of 13 plunged to her death after leaving the chilling phone message: He wants me dead, he wants me to jump.


Chevonea Kendall-Bryan had been distraught over bullying hours before plummeting 60ft from her fifth-floor bedroom, pals said.


Last night mum Amanda told how she and Chevonea’s stepdad Michael rushed to the room after a bang at their flat in Battersea, South West London. She said: “We looked out and she was on the ground and covered in blood. She had seemed fine, normal. I’m devastated.”


Flats ... in South West London
Flats ... in South West London

A pupil at Chevonea’s school, Saint Cecilia’s, told how she found the tragic teen weeping in


 the toilets the same day, Tuesday. The student said: “She said, ‘Those boys are bullying me’.

 I said, ‘Pupil support will sort it’. She replied, ‘No, it’ll never be sorted’.” The mystery posting

 on her phone messenger service later emerged. Pals have left online tributes condemning

 bullying. One said: “Bullied until you decided to take no more.”


Amanda, also mum to 20-month-old Shakaila, believes Chevonea fell while sitting on the ledge, as she often did.


But she said: “I’ve heard rumours and police don’t think it was an accident.

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“Apparently two people at the school were interviewed.” Police called the death “unexplained”. The school said: “We are shocked.”




]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 16:12:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10081076.html#10081076 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : nimkola wrote: Sang Froid...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080996.html#10080996 Author: bindy
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:46pm

Originally posted by nimkola nimkola wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I have a question....18 and 13 yo's go to the same schools in the UK?

Quite a few schools in my city have students from ages 11-18. Sometimes its 11-16 and then you go to college to do A levels/sixth form.

This story is sad as hell. Really common too...minus the death ofc.
13 and 18 year olds attend school together in America all the time.
 
I entered high school at 13. I turned 14  two months later.
 
Also, alot of kids graduate high school at 18 for one reason or another.
 
So there are alot of 13 & 18 year olds going to school together.  They may even share the same schedule. They may have lunch, gym, study hall or an elective credit class together......
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:46:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080996.html#10080996 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : bindy wrote: nitabug wrote:I...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080988.html#10080988 Author: Ladybird0724
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:42pm

Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I hope he never forgets her image of dying and it haunts him until he goes complete crazy.

The boy has autism (no?). He probably does not have the mental capacity to care/feel emotionally like a non-autistic person…..



it depends on where one falls on the spectrum. one autistic person is not like the next...there are vast differences.

from what I can infer from the article, he knew what he was doing was wrong.
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:42:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080988.html#10080988 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : nitabug wrote:I hope he never...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080953.html#10080953 Author: bindy
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:27pm

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I hope he never forgets her image of dying and it haunts him until he goes complete crazy.

The boy has autism (no?). He probably does not have the mental capacity to care/feel emotionally like a non-autistic person…..

]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:27:14 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080953.html#10080953 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : they can go to hell with that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080945.html#10080945 Author: eanaj5
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:22pm

they can go to hell with that autistic excuse, I bet he's done something like this before, along with the other boy. smh, that poor baby, did her mother know about the rape? ]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:22:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080945.html#10080945 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : this story makes me sick. parents...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080940.html#10080940 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:19pm

this story makes me sick.  parents really need to do better.]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:19:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080940.html#10080940 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : that lil fvcker left w/o calling...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080935.html#10080935 Author: Ladybird0724
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 3:16pm

that lil fvcker left w/o calling for help Angry]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 15:16:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080935.html#10080935 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Poor baby. Can&#039;t they arrest...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080742.html#10080742 Author: happy 4b
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 2:10pm

Poor baby. Can't they arrest him. ]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 14:10:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080742.html#10080742 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : SamoneLenior wrote: zsazsa...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080732.html#10080732 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 2:07pm

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?


Yes most definitely! age of consent is 16. 

I can't get over the age. I think it's bcos my son is 13. Argh. 

I wish she died knowing she was loved. She must have been petrified. 


you have kids?

Just the one! LOL
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 14:07:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080732.html#10080732 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Sang Froid wrote:I have a...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080731.html#10080731 Author: nimkola
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 2:06pm

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I have a question....18 and 13 yo's go to the same schools in the UK?

Quite a few schools in my city have students from ages 11-18. Sometimes its 11-16 and then you go to college to do A levels/sixth form.

This story is sad as hell. Really common too...minus the death ofc.
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 14:06:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080731.html#10080731 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : zsazsa wrote: ThoughtCouture...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080719.html#10080719 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 2:01pm

Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?


Yes most definitely! age of consent is 16. 

I can't get over the age. I think it's bcos my son is 13. Argh. 

I wish she died knowing she was loved. She must have been petrified. 
 
ok then, so i'm back to pulling these lil effers phone records...
 
they are denying having relations with her but was passing the video around...
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 14:01:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080719.html#10080719 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : zsazsa wrote: ThoughtCouture...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080718.html#10080718 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 2:01pm

Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?


Yes most definitely! age of consent is 16. 

I can't get over the age. I think it's bcos my son is 13. Argh. 

I wish she died knowing she was loved. She must have been petrified. 


you have kids?
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 14:01:17 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080718.html#10080718 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : The boy will have to live them...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080715.html#10080715 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:59pm

The boy will have to live them himself. 

n a text message to the boy she said: "How much can I handle, honestly? I beg you to delete it."

While giving evidence at North Westminster Coroners' Court, E6 confirmed Chevonea fell as he was riding past her home on his bike.

According to neighbour Richard Umunegbu, who witnessed Chevonea falling to her death, a boy on a bike who was speaking on his mobile phone, later found out to be E6, started crying and said "That wasn't meant to happen".

Mr Umunegbu said the boy cycled off without going for help, but later returned and watched paramedics battle to resuscitate the stricken teenager.

When coroner Mr Richmond asked how sure he was that E6 had said this, he replied: "100 per cent."

Coroner Bernard Richmond QC told the court he believed she was leaning out of the window to convince the boy she would jump if he did not erase the mobile phone footage.

Hours before her death Chevonea had changed her Blackberry messenger profile to read "F*** this life".

She also texted another friend saying "he wants me to jump". The inquest was expected to conclude on Wednesday.

]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:59:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080715.html#10080715 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Sang Froid wrote:I have a question....18...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080713.html#10080713 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:59pm

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I have a question....18 and 13 yo's go to the same schools in the UK?
 
the article said the boyz didn't go to her school.
 
it says she was forced to do thangs to the first boy during half time of a game (or something like that)
 
the second boy told her the next day if she didn't do the same for him he was gonna bust out her windows (so he must have known where she lived...i guess...)


Edited by ThoughtCouture - Jan 17 2013 at 2:00pm]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:59:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080713.html#10080713 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : not to sound morbid but i was...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080711.html#10080711 Author: SoutherNtellect
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:59pm

not to sound morbid but i was wondering what floor 60ft was]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:59:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080711.html#10080711 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : ThoughtCouture wrote:is this...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080708.html#10080708 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:57pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?


Yes most definitely! age of consent is 16. 

I can't get over the age. I think it's bcos my son is 13. Argh. 

I wish she died knowing she was loved. She must have been petrified. 
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:57:38 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080708.html#10080708 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : I feel like a lot of unverified...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080706.html#10080706 Author: SweetNovember*
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:57pm

I feel like a lot of unverified and unverifiable claims are being made in this article.]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:57:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080706.html#10080706 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Hmmmm.... ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080700.html#10080700 Author: SweetNovember*
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:55pm

Hmmmm....]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:55:18 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080700.html#10080700 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : is this in the UK? 18 with a 13...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080697.html#10080697 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:55pm

is this in the UK?  18 with a 13 yo is statutory rape, right?

]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:55:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080697.html#10080697 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : This article is from her local...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080698.html#10080698 Author: zsazsa
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:54pm

This article is from her local area

A sexually abused teenager accidentally killed herself as her tormentor cycled past, an inquest concluded today.

Chevonea Kendall-Bryan died after falling from her family's fourth floor flat in Seldon House, Savona Street, Battersea, on March 29, 2011.

A month before the 13-year-old was forced to perform a sex act on a teenage boy who filmed it on his phone.

It was passed around her school, St  Cecilia’s School, in Sutherland Grove, Southfields, which resulted in cruel bullying from her peers.

Today a coroner recorded an eight point narrative verdict of her death, which was the result of an accident.

Bernard Richmond QC said Chevonea was leaning out of the window as the boy cycled past, threatening to jump.

He said: "At a time when she knew him to be on the pavement below her bedroom, Chevonea climbed out onto the window ledge. 

"She was attempting to demonstrate to him that she would jump if he did not do as she asked.

"She either jumped or lost her balance and fell whilst on the ledge. She had no settled intention to kill herself."


The following day, another boy forced her to perform oral sex on him after he threatened to smash all the windows in her flat, it was said.After Chevonea moved into year nine she reluctantly went to the party where she alleged she was raped, North Westminster Coroners' Court heard.

Chevonea told her school she had been raped and they passed on the information to social services.

It was recommended she should see a mental health professional, but the referral was never followed up by the school.

Hours before her death Chevonea had changed her Blackberry messenger profile to read "F*** this life".

She also texted another friend saying "he wants me to jump"

.

]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:54:54 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080698.html#10080698 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : I have a question....18 and 13...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080696.html#10080696 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:54pm

I have a question....18 and 13 yo's go to the same schools in the UK?]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:54:05 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080696.html#10080696 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : I hope he never forgets her image...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080689.html#10080689 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:51pm

I hope he never forgets her image of dying and it haunts him until he goes complete crazy.]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:51:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080689.html#10080689 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : i&#039;m confused. if this video...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080685.html#10080685 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:50pm

i'm confused.  if this video was recorded on his phone and being passed around, is there no way to verify that?]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:50:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080685.html#10080685 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Random Thoughts wrote:Should...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080683.html#10080683 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:49pm

Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Should get the same attention as the gay kids that kill themselves over bullying. 

Which is none IMO. 
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:49:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080683.html#10080683 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Should get the same attention...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080682.html#10080682 Author: Random Thoughts
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:48pm

Should get the same attention as the gay kids that kill themselves over bullying. ]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:48:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080682.html#10080682 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : Hmmm.... ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080681.html#10080681 Author: Sang Froid
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:47pm

Hmmm....]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:47:28 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080681.html#10080681 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : wow...They things teenagers have...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080672.html#10080672 Author: sugabanana
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:44pm

wow...They things teenagers have to go through while in school. RIP!!]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:44:07 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080672.html#10080672 <![CDATA[This is terribly sad - where is the justice? : so much to say, but it&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080668.html#10080668 Author: SoutherNtellect
Subject: 353557
Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 1:42pm

Cry
so much to say, but it's all been said before
]]> Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:42:45 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-is-terribly-sad-where-is-the-justice_topic353557_post10080668.html#10080668