Black Hair Media Forum : This cheap brotha approach http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 22:01:41 +0000 Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:55:46 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=352692 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : afrokock wrote:happy new year...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041196.html#10041196 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:55am

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

happy new year jewels and samone



happy new years!]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:55:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041196.html#10041196 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : afrokock wrote:happy new year...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041191.html#10041191 Author: Jewelsnyc
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:53am

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

happy new year jewels and samone

back @cha shawty. ]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:53:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041191.html#10041191 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : happy new year jewels and samone...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041190.html#10041190 Author: afrokock
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:51am

happy new year jewels and samone

]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:51:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041190.html#10041190 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : i wanna know why he deleted her...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041187.html#10041187 Author: afrokock
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:50am

i wanna know why he deleted her number

]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:50:48 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041187.html#10041187 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : why are broke niccas with no ambition...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041157.html#10041157 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:20am


why are broke niccas with no ambition always talking about pre nups?]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:20:39 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041157.html#10041157 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : What does buying a drink in the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041149.html#10041149 Author: Jewelsnyc
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:00am

What does buying a drink in the club mean? Does it have a significant meaning like your intentions are to sleep with the woman? Or is it just a drink? I don't understand. ]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 08:00:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041149.html#10041149 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : hahahaha! ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041095.html#10041095 Author: afrokock
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 4:04am

hahahaha!]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 04:04:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041095.html#10041095 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Poor sap buys a girl a drink...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041035.html#10041035 Author: OoDles O
Subject: 352692
Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 1:26am

Poor sap buys a girl a drink that I end up dancing with and scooping up..

tough break buddy 

:hah:


































*deletes number


Edited by OoDles O - Jan 01 2013 at 1:29am]]> Tue, 01 Jan 2013 01:26:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10041035.html#10041035 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : I love how you explained that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040928.html#10040928 Author: babyk94
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:43pm

I love how you explained that jones. I learn something new everyday.]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:43:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040928.html#10040928 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Tbh it&#039;s mostly an upper...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040927.html#10040927 Author: jonesable
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:41pm

Tbh it's mostly an upper class white woman thing lol]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:41:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040927.html#10040927 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Pure feminists have a long history...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040922.html#10040922 Author: jonesable
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:37pm

Pure feminists have a long history of judging women whom they deem less progressive as themselves.
There was a huge backlash against women deciding to not partipate in the work force and choosing to be stay at home mom.
Well educated women deciding to stay home.
Pure feminists though this to be regressive.
So there was a spin off called choice feminism which tries to give equal respect to all choices those traditional and progressive

Choice feminism also has many critics

There was an episode about it on Sex and the City.
Charlotte decided to quit her job and the other girls judged her ,especially the lawyer Miranda , the famous quote from Charlotte was " I choose my choice!".


Edited by jonesable - Dec 31 2012 at 11:40pm]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:37:55 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040922.html#10040922 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : jonesable wrote:That&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040915.html#10040915 Author: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:33pm

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

That's a branch of feminism called choice feminism .
Not one in the same Skittiles

Then how is it different?
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:33:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040915.html#10040915 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : That&#039;s a branch of feminism...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040903.html#10040903 Author: jonesable
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:29pm

That's a branch of feminism called choice feminism .
Not one in the same Skittiles]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:29:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040903.html#10040903 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : leftywefty wrote:If a dude...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040895.html#10040895 Author: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:25pm

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

 

If a dude can't make it past a first date because he can't or won't spend $100 on a date then clearly a woman is basing her decision on his wealth or spending habits and not his character. I don't know how to make it any clearer than that. Yes, a woman shouldn't be cool with a dude outright disrespecting her by taking her to the dollar menu, but some women on here are so entitled, so hypocritical that its ridiculous. They want to be new age and feminist, yet want to play the traditional gender roles when it comes to dating. If you want to be independent, then go dutch on the bill. If you want dudes to treat you well based on reasons other than the superficial, then you need to reciprocate that back to him.

Actualllleeeeeeeee, feminism stresses the importance of a woman, rather than a man, deciding what she wants out of life. If that means she wants to be financially independent and have a partner with financial stability, then so be it. 

But continue, I like where this is going

]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 23:25:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040895.html#10040895 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : BTW, I disagree with this prostituting...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040809.html#10040809 Author: ThatGurlD
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:44pm

BTW, I disagree with this prostituting business.  I believe a man will do as much or as little required to get a woman's company.  I think good men want to work for it and lazy men do not.  In a lot of ways I think that's why they choose different for who they sleep with and who they marry (or whether they want to marry at all).  Good men have no problem working most of their lives to give the woman of their dreams the life she deserves.  If I were to sell myself to the highest bidder it would not have been my husband.  Obviously, there's a lot more involved in that.

I'm down for pizza and bowling because I'm competitive and that's fun for me.  But I'm also down for a date to the Jazz Alley and a overnight stay at the Weston.  If he's down for one thing and not the other, then you raise an eyebrow.  If he just wants to be with you, then it's not going to matter the date.


]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 22:44:06 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040809.html#10040809 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Edited by ThatGurlD - Dec312012...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040801.html#10040801 Author: ThatGurlD
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:36pm

Wink


Edited by ThatGurlD - Dec 31 2012 at 11:00pm]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 22:36:49 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040801.html#10040801 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : ThoughtCouture wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040756.html#10040756 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:05pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..


LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.


It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself.
Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*


 
i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin.


lol considering marriages were historically based on financials
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 22:05:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040756.html#10040756 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : ThoughtCouture wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040709.html#10040709 Author: pattigurlatl
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:39pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

Ugh and y'all ask why i'm pro sugar daddy.


I'm pro sugar daddy. Older men generally have more refined tastes if they are particularly successful. They've traveled a bit and have had exposure outside of their little pea brain of a box.
But they tend to over compensate for their flaccidity.
 
geeezus what do you mean.  like try and do the most with a soft one?  how?  lol
 
anyway, if i were to have a suga daddy, i'd prefer he was not able to and not on viagra...lol
Meaning they spend more and try to impress with money when they have a little peepee. Men do all kinds of stupid things because they have little or flaccid peepees.


]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:39:43 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040709.html#10040709 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : nycdiva357 wrote:since...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040695.html#10040695 Author: leftywefty
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:30pm

Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

since the numero uno reason for divorce is financial instability..

maybe more ppl men and women alike should take a serious look at the wallets of who they are dedicating their life to.

love obviously isn't enough.

but rather that taking a good honest look a you and your partners financial situation....
ppl become blinded by luv-- like that alone pays the bills..... and they set their self up for ruin.

think ladies n gents.

couldn't agree more. we also need to observe spending habits. One of the things I admire most about both my father and my SO is that they are great with saving money.


Edited by leftywefty - Dec 31 2012 at 9:31pm]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:30:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040695.html#10040695 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : ThoughtCouture wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040691.html#10040691 Author: leftywefty
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:27pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..


LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.


It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself.
Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*


 
i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin.

If a dude can't make it past a first date because he can't or won't spend $100 on a date then clearly a woman is basing her decision on his wealth or spending habits and not his character. I don't know how to make it any clearer than that. Yes, a woman shouldn't be cool with a dude outright disrespecting her by taking her to the dollar menu, but some women on here are so entitled, so hypocritical that its ridiculous. They want to be new age and feminist, yet want to play the traditional gender roles when it comes to dating. If you want to be independent, then go dutch on the bill. If you want dudes to treat you well based on reasons other than the superficial, then you need to reciprocate that back to him.
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:27:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040691.html#10040691 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : since the numero uno reason for...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040689.html#10040689 Author: nycdiva357
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:26pm

since the numero uno reason for divorce is financial instability..

maybe more ppl men and women alike should take a serious look at the wallets of who they are dedicating their life to.

love obviously isn't enough.

but rather that taking a good honest look a you and your partners financial situation....
ppl become blinded by luv-- like that alone pays the bills..... and they set their self up for ruin.

think ladies n gents.
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:26:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040689.html#10040689 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : SamoneLenior wrote:cool to...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040685.html#10040685 Author: BoutThatLife
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:22pm

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


cool to see who accepts them little to no effort dates on here

But she's a real woman ]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:22:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040685.html#10040685 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : leftywefty wrote: Midwest_Da_Gawd...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040681.html#10040681 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:20pm

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..


LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.


It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself.
Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*


 
i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin.
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:20:44 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040681.html#10040681 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Junior Jr wrote:it&#039;s like...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040676.html#10040676 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:19pm

Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

it's like shooting pool with a rope

jr.


lmao]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:19:27 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040676.html#10040676 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : it&#039;s like shooting pool with...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040674.html#10040674 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:18pm

it's like shooting pool with a rope

jr.
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:18:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040674.html#10040674 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : pattigurlatl wrote: BoutThatLife...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040671.html#10040671 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:18pm

Originally posted by pattigurlatl pattigurlatl wrote:

Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

Ugh and y'all ask why i'm pro sugar daddy.


I'm pro sugar daddy. Older men generally have more refined tastes if they are particularly successful. They've traveled a bit and have had exposure outside of their little pea brain of a box.
But they tend to over compensate for their flaccidity.
 
geeezus what do you mean.  like try and do the most with a soft one?  how?  lol
 
anyway, if i were to have a suga daddy, i'd prefer he was not able to and not on viagra...lol
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:18:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040671.html#10040671 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : ain&#039;t nothin&#039; wrong...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040669.html#10040669 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:17pm

ain't nothin' wrong with a date at panera.

jr.
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:17:50 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040669.html#10040669 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : cool to see who accepts them little...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040667.html#10040667 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:16pm


cool to see who accepts them little to no effort dates on here]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:16:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040667.html#10040667 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040645.html#10040645 Author: leftywefty
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:01pm

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by leftywefty leftywefty wrote:

It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..


LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.


It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself.
Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*


]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:01:45 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040645.html#10040645 <![CDATA[This cheap brotha approach : i haven&#039;t humped a man at...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040640.html#10040640 Author: nycdiva357
Subject: 352692
Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 8:59pm

i haven't humped a man at his mama's house since i was in high school.
this thread makes me itch..lol
]]> Mon, 31 Dec 2012 20:59:35 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/this-cheap-brotha-approach_topic352692_post10040640.html#10040640