Black Hair Media Forum : Splitting the payment on the first few dates http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Thu, 23 May 2013 02:53:30 +0000 Tue, 08 Jan 2013 21:44:37 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=353099 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : rickysrose wrote:Dinner is...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10060187.html#10060187 Author: babyk94
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:44pm

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:





Dinner is not "providing", it should not stress your pockets

Don't you guys go to lunch/dinner with coworkers, friends, family?  Paying for a meal shouldn't be considered drastic
That's what I thought, but have read otherwise]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 21:44:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10060187.html#10060187 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Dinner is not &#034;providing&#034;,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10060184.html#10060184 Author: rickysrose
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:40pm



Dinner is not "providing", it should not stress your pockets

Don't you guys go to lunch/dinner with coworkers, friends, family?  Paying for a meal shouldn't be considered drastic
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 21:40:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10060184.html#10060184 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : smh...these kneegrows done...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059811.html#10059811 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:50pm

smh...these kneegrows done lost it...lol]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:50:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059811.html#10059811 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : SamoneLenior wrote: maysay1...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059799.html#10059799 Author: Gkisses
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:47pm

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Depends on what's considered husbandly duties...I need a list.

But I don't think anybody should be combining finances, cosigning loans/leases, or letting someone be completely financially dependent upon them until marriage/official committed relationship.



But we've had threads were some have suggested that a girl should dump her bf if he wouldn't spot her rent money...Some said things along the lines of expecting him to give it to me if hes with me or something a long those lines.

Im just curious is allTongue





]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:47:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059799.html#10059799 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : I look it at like potential employment....]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059789.html#10059789 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:43pm

I look it at like potential employment. The fck am I going to work for you and all I am going to to get is the bare minimum, bullsh*t and pennies. All for the possibility that you are trying to jedi mind fck me into being a better employee with broke nicca shenaniccans?

I'm good.
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:43:24 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059789.html#10059789 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : maysay1 wrote:Depends on...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059788.html#10059788 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:43pm

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Depends on what's considered husbandly duties...I need a list.

But I don't think anybody should be combining finances, cosigning loans/leases, or letting someone be completely financially dependent upon them until marriage/official committed relationship.
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:43:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059788.html#10059788 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Depends on what&#039;s considered...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059780.html#10059780 Author: maysay1
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:41pm

Depends on what's considered husbandly duties...I need a list.

But I don't think anybody should be combining finances, cosigning loans/leases, or letting someone be completely financially dependent upon them until marriage/official committed relationship.
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:41:38 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059780.html#10059780 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Lol what he can&#039;t take his...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059777.html#10059777 Author: jonesable
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:41pm

Lol what he can't take his girlfriend put to dinner?
He stay on insta gram and twitter flex about how a man should spend on his lady but don't do ish irl.
He bout to put lambo doors on his truck .
Sound system all decked out.

One of his tweets was " if it's on my woman it's nothing #treatherroght
Man look.

I don't see why she liked him anyway.
I hate ppl like that.

Edited by jonesable - Jan 08 2013 at 6:42pm]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:41:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059777.html#10059777 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : ms_wonderland wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059773.html#10059773 Author: Gkisses
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:39pm

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 

that would be a good thread.

paying for the dinner isn't husband duties though.  you're supposed to pay for whomever you invite.



I agree...Im talking more along the lines of how much is spent,how often its spent and what its spent on.
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:39:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059773.html#10059773 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : I think I want a valentine&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059770.html#10059770 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:39pm

I think I want a valentine's day date this year. We'll see.]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:39:52 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059770.html#10059770 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Gkisses wrote:Yanno how some...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059772.html#10059772 Author: SamoneLenior
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:39pm

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 


thread?
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:39:49 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059772.html#10059772 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Gkisses wrote:Yanno how some...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059767.html#10059767 Author: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:38pm

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 

Don't hurt 'em!!!!
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:38:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059767.html#10059767 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Gkisses wrote:Yanno how some...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059764.html#10059764 Author: Limalady
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:38pm

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 
 
That is completely different, but I can't comment. I don't hold that view. I'm shacking up, and my whole family lets me know about it. Sleepy
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:38:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059764.html#10059764 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : ms_wonderland wrote:how old...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059762.html#10059762 Author: jonesable
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:38pm

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

how old is he @ jones


We're all the same age ,22]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:38:22 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059762.html#10059762 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : ms_wonderland wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059761.html#10059761 Author: nitabug
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:38pm

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 

that would be a good thread.

paying for the dinner isn't husband duties though.  you're supposed to pay for whomever you invite.

exactly. That reach is like that "cheatin on god" reach
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:38:09 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059761.html#10059761 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Gkisses wrote:Yanno how some...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059759.html#10059759 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:37pm

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 

that would be a good thread.

paying for the dinner isn't husband duties though.  you're supposed to pay for whomever you invite.
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:37:04 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059759.html#10059759 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : &lt;3jr. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059758.html#10059758 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:36pm

<3

jr. ]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:36:41 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059758.html#10059758 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Yanno how some women say a girl...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059756.html#10059756 Author: Gkisses
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:35pm

Yanno how some women say a girl shouldnt be doing "wifey" duties when she just a gf. Is there any belief that a guy shouldnt be doing "hubby" duties if hes just the bf.. ie... his money = our money. 
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:35:37 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059756.html#10059756 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : how old is he @ jones ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059753.html#10059753 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:34pm

how old is he @ jones]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:34:29 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059753.html#10059753 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Junior Jr wrote:How dare...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059750.html#10059750 Author: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:32pm

Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

How dare he spend his money on himself!

This is an outrage!

jr.

LMFAOOO
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:32:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059750.html#10059750 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : jonesable wrote:Yeah the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059749.html#10059749 Author: Gkisses
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:31pm

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yeah the date can involve food but it being the center of the date not so much.


Ohhhhhh my friend got so played by her boyfriend he is so cheap .
He took her to the movies and after he said he had already ate .

Mannnn I been tellin her about him and that ish



LOL LOL LOL


]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:31:55 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059749.html#10059749 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : How dare he spend his money on...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059743.html#10059743 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:27pm

How dare he spend his money on himself!

This is an outrage!

jr. ]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:27:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059743.html#10059743 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : ThoughtCouture wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059738.html#10059738 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:24pm

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Lmao

He's only that way with her.
He has no problem spending money on anything and everything else.

Glad they broke up but mad she wasn't the one to pull the trigger
smh.  that is crazy as hell!!!!

that is RUDE as hell
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:24:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059738.html#10059738 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : jonesable wrote:LmaoHe&#039;s...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059727.html#10059727 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:18pm

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Lmao

He's only that way with her.
He has no problem spending money on anything and everything else.

Glad they broke up but mad she wasn't the one to pull the trigger
smh.  that is crazy as hell!!!!]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:18:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059727.html#10059727 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Junior Jr wrote:Yeah, we&#039;ll...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059721.html#10059721 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:17pm

Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

Yeah, we'll stop McDonalds for some fries or something

jr.
 
LOLStern Smile
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:17:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059721.html#10059721 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : LmaoHe&#039;s only that way with...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059720.html#10059720 Author: jonesable
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:17pm

Lmao

He's only that way with her.
He has no problem spending money on anything and everything else.

Glad they broke up but mad she wasn't the one to pull the trigger ]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:17:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059720.html#10059720 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Yeah, we&#039;ll stop McDonalds...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059717.html#10059717 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:17pm

Yeah, we'll stop McDonalds for some fries or something

jr. ]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:17:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059717.html#10059717 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : I think that Brotha might be even...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059713.html#10059713 Author: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:16pm

I think that Brotha might be even realer than me! Shocked
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:16:47 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059713.html#10059713 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : jonesable wrote:Man he stay...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059711.html#10059711 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:15pm

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Man he stay with that stupid ish.
Trying to take her on a date at his cousins baby shower saying thy can eat there.



She never even met the cousin before.


I'm glad she said no

is he MM's cousin?Shocked
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:15:36 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059711.html#10059711 <![CDATA[Splitting the payment on the first few dates : Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote: ...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059708.html#10059708 Author: ThoughtCouture
Subject: 353099
Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:15pm

Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yeah the date can involve food but it being the center of the date not so much.


Ohhhhhh my friend got so played by her boyfriend he is so cheap .
He took her to the movies and after he said he had already ate .

Mannnn I been tellin her about him and that ish




 
yo azz...LOLLOLLOL
]]> Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:15:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/splitting-the-payment-on-the-first-few-dates_topic353099_post10059708.html#10059708