http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Wed, 22 May 2013 00:14:49 +0000 Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:19:11 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=354936 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156667.html#10156667 Author: BBpants
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:19pm

I'm not giving money to anyone anymore. I learned my lesson on that. I'll only help out family or my future husband...everyone else can suck a ...]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:19:11 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156667.html#10156667 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156642.html#10156642 Author: EPITOME
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:02pm

*no comment*]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:02:48 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156642.html#10156642 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156636.html#10156636 Author: babyk94
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:00pm

It all depends because sometimes people fall on hard times like my boyfriend is going through a lot right now and I'm there to help as much ad I can but, to an extent he also has to make an effort to better his situation aswell it is not only my resposibility. ]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:00:14 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156636.html#10156636 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156615.html#10156615 Author: india100
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:51pm

Treat a man likes he treats you  . I would never allow a man to make a fool out of me to say i have a man lol . I see young women on bus stops with 5 kids , while the father drives around in one of those bouncing cars with gold rims . What do you call cars that bounce ?  I respect my husband mother , but i keep her out of our personal life . Never disrespect a mother or father of the person you are dating .

Edited by india100 - Feb 20 2013 at 6:51pm]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:51:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156615.html#10156615 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156610.html#10156610 Author: ThatGurlD
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:48pm

The most I did was inspire him to do better and help himself.  ]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:48:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156610.html#10156610 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156588.html#10156588 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:36pm

nycdiva357 wrote: i can help someone im fawking...as much as i see fit.. and how much i feel they deserve it. hell ive helped ppl im not fawkin. so at least i get a nut w/ the other.

same here.
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Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:32pm

I don't think I've done enough. But I don't have his kind of money and his pride won't let me spend my money. Not going to fight that.]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:32:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156579.html#10156579 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156562.html#10156562 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:27pm

Atm, shopping sprees at Marshall's and a #1 at chicfila

jr. ]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:27:42 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156562.html#10156562 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156553.html#10156553 Author: nycdiva357
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:22pm

i can help someone im fawking...as much as i see fit.. and how much i feel they deserve it.

hell ive helped ppl im not fawkin.
so at least i get a nut w/ the other.
]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:22:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156553.html#10156553 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156552.html#10156552 Author: ms_wonderland
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:21pm

Anyone can lose a job so yes I'd still be there. I've had bfs recover quietly nicely after a job or car issue...that's just life. If it is a persistent thing then I gotta go because I like a problem solver. I'm resourceful as hell and I need a man who is too.]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:21:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156552.html#10156552 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156550.html#10156550 Author: nitabug
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:19pm

As long as you don't hurt yourself in an attempt to help someone else, you should do what you like.

I get resentful so I am not really in upgrade anyone mode.
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Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:13pm

I'm generous...with my money, my time, whatever.

I'm trying to be better and I will support so's/friends with any attempts at being better. Whatever I can give, I will, because I want us all to be awesome sauce.
]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2013 18:13:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156540.html#10156540 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/spinoff-to-what-extent-do-you-help-your-boothang_topic354936_post10156482.html#10156482 Author: Finesseful
Subject: 354936
Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:45pm

Posts in the boyfriend thread made me wonder...in what ways should men/women upgrade their s/o (not husbands or wives, boothangs) and what ways should they NOT?

Like would you ever let them drive your car while you were at work or would you pay their way if they got laid off or anything similar? LMKS
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