If his ego is involved .. then this time he will want to be the one to dump YOU.

 

So you see how he is .. so get rid of him.

 

There was A REASON you split in the beginning but once you let him back in ... it justs gets all messy and confusing - causes you hurt and upset and it doesn't work out anyway. So what was the point?

 

You should have stayed away. 

 

I say, cut him COMPELTELY out of your life and move on. He already told you he did not want a commitment .. so then really you are just being strung along.

 

Don't let yourself fall for him .. and a year from now we are gonna have to hear some sob story about how he's treating you bad and won't move out.

 

Noooo it's already starting off bad and typically such things  .. only get WORSE.  So get out while you still have a normal life a chance with a decent a guy that WILL make a commitment with you.

 

(I can tell you of many women that stay tied to such men .. missed their chances to have a baby.. aged out and in the  end .. the guy dumped them anyway.)  

 

Lesson number 2 .. don't waste time with the wrong guy. The only thing worse than staying with the wrong guy for (X) years ... is staying with the wrong guy for (X) years and 1 DAY!

In the begging this man tried to get at me, but I was not having it (he says that I was really rude and mean at this time) because I was "talking" to somebody else at the time. I like to keep my focus on one person at a time. But once that relationship ended I allowed HIM the time of day. He actually was really funny and nice. I grew to like him. We literally would spend whole days together hardly ever apart. A couple of months pass. Then the first time we had sex it was on my birthday. And girllll I can i preach to the choir and say that was the BEST sex I ever had in my life!  lol But we had a falling out and I totally deleted him from my life. I told him that you messed up and Im not fu**ing with you anymore. I was so serious. When he would call I did not answer. Deleted his phone number, unfollowed off of social networks, when he would send me text i would delete them with the quickness. This happened for about three months. 

Then one day he texted me and I actually answered. He asked me to come over I did and we had   a long talk about our feelings. He told me that he never had to wait so long to have sex with anybody and actually respected me not just as a person but also as a women. Then he never actually been ignored by a woman like at either. He apologize for being a liar. I asked him why did you hit me up he said that he "actually caught feelings for me and missed me and that I was damn near perfect." So from then on we became connected to the hip again. 

What should have been a red flag was when he told me he didnt want to have sex anymore because he does not like to lead women on. I gave that what in the hell look and asked are you having sex with anybody else and do you feel like your leading me one. Of course he said no, but that no sex lasted a whooping 10 days. 

Yesterday he asked me if I could see myself living with him? I said not right now were both still young, but in the future if were still together i dont see why not. 

You could have though I cussed his behind out at the way he reacted!! He cocked his head back and said "Together?! Wait what do you mean by together" I told him that were not boyfriend and girlfriend but I feel like were working up to that. We are only having sex with each other no body else, we really like each other, and we care a lot about each other. Then he told me "well just to let you know Im single and were not together". I was so upset I got up and I left. 

Then today I took him to the car part store because I did promised him I would help. The car ride to the store was kind of funny you could tell he was uncomfortable. On the way back to his place he asked me to hang out with him for a while. I did. He kept trying to cheer me up. I wear my emotions on my face so you could tell I was still pissed. 

Im just a little confused as to how he could tell me he cares for me, does not want me to talk to any other men, and we spend all this time together but does not to be "together" .