Black Hair Media Forum : She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do?

Black Hair Media Forum : She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:26:48 +0000 Tue, 13 Nov 2012 23:56:58 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 10.15 360 Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=350141 <![CDATA[Black Hair Media Forum]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com//forum_images/BHM_Logo_v5_Forum.jpg http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/ <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : If my man was on here and his...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9923687.html#9923687 Author: 305bgirl
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 11:56pm

If my man was on here and his name was SensitiveSwag, I'd raise an eyebrow too]]> Tue, 13 Nov 2012 23:56:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9923687.html#9923687 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : pinkextra wrote: Mixer...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9904328.html#9904328 Author: Mixer
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:10pm

pinkextra wrote:

Mixer wrote:

LOL

Thanks for the tip off. I'll abandon BHM when I get into my next relationship.

You ain't already know? BHM will leave you Bald, Broke, Bitter and Lonely!

]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2012 17:10:12 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9904328.html#9904328 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Mixer wrote:Thanks for the...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903445.html#9903445 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:39am

Mixer wrote:

LOL

Thanks for the tip off. I'll abandon BHM when I get into my next relationship.

You ain't already know? BHM will leave you Bald, Broke, Bitter and Lonely!

]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2012 10:39:23 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903445.html#9903445 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : SensitiveSwag wrote: I showed...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903256.html#9903256 Author: Mixer
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:21am

SensitiveSwag wrote:

I showed her the butt ads and now she thinks "I'm" trying to get buttocks enhancements for another guy.

Ladies, WHAT DO I DO? WHAT DO I DO?

Cry

]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2012 07:21:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903256.html#9903256 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Thanks for the tip off. I'll...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903255.html#9903255 Author: Mixer
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:20am

LOL

Thanks for the tip off. I'll abandon BHM when I get into my next relationship.]]> Mon, 05 Nov 2012 07:20:02 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9903255.html#9903255 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Just tell her truth. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900330.html#9900330 Author: Faithfully2002
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 5:03pm

Just tell her truth.]]> Sat, 03 Nov 2012 17:03:31 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900330.html#9900330 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : mrshairdo wrote:Lol James...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900213.html#9900213 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 3:56pm

mrshairdo wrote:

Lol James is not from NYC but I won't expose his location for this further slander lol

Now that you mention it, it's all coming back to me! Jason Williams is from NYC or maybe I'm mistaken!

James is from da South! (I'll withhold the city/state)! Wink

]]> Sat, 03 Nov 2012 15:56:21 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900213.html#9900213 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Jewelsnyc wrote:I've...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900097.html#9900097 Author: Twisted_Angel
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 3:08pm

Jewelsnyc wrote:

I've never understood why the women on this site are so against men being here? I mean, it is black HAIR media, it doesn't specify women only so I don't get it

yes women are predominately on the forum, however, men who wish to interact with us and speak on topics of interest, I don't see what the problem is. But you have women on here that are truly bothered...but honestly, this place would be extra boring without the little bit of testosterone that we do have on here...

THIS
]]> Sat, 03 Nov 2012 15:08:19 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9900097.html#9900097 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Lol James is not from NYC but...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9899836.html#9899836 Author: mrshairdo
Subject: 350141
Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 12:16pm

Lol James is not from NYC but I won't expose his location for this further slander lol]]> Sat, 03 Nov 2012 12:16:01 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9899836.html#9899836 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893658.html#9893658 Author: James Avery
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 30 2012 at 9:11pm

Angry

]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:11:59 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893658.html#9893658 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : James Avery wrote: pinkextra...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893469.html#9893469 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 30 2012 at 8:04pm

James Avery wrote:

pinkextra wrote:

Junior Jr wrote:

yes, pink, name names

jr.

I stand by my statement. Of course not ALL, but it seems to be a trend of male dehydrated simps around (zesty is for another convo).

As far as names are concerned:

I'll start with YOU Jr,...

others included:

~~James~~ the guy from NYC who only dates light butts with the shirtless guy w/ a glock in his avi! , Coleslaw/Tweetie/Applesauce, Positive K/Shad, Bunz...

could you please take my name off your list?

i don't approve of you slandering my good name.

There ya go! LOL

Edited by pinkextra - Oct 30 2012 at 8:07pm]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 20:04:35 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893469.html#9893469 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Aye ma, where's my thanks...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893231.html#9893231 Author: SensitiveSwag
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 30 2012 at 6:36pm

Aye ma, where's my thanks @?]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 18:36:43 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9893231.html#9893231 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : pinkextra wrote: Junior Jr...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9892043.html#9892043 Author: James Avery
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 30 2012 at 9:20am

pinkextra wrote:

Junior Jr wrote:

yes, pink, name names

jr.

I stand by my statement. Of course not ALL, but it seems to be a trend of male dehydrated simps around (zesty is for another convo).

As far as names are concerned:

I'll start with YOU Jr,...

others included:

James, Coleslaw/Tweetie/Applesauce, Positive K/Shad, Bunz...

could you please take my name off your list?

i don't approve of you slandering my good name.

]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 09:20:45 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9892043.html#9892043 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : im thirsty, huh?that's pretty...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891589.html#9891589 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 11:40pm

im thirsty, huh?

that's pretty ironic LOL

jr.

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 23:40:15 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891589.html#9891589 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : but one of the guys gave us that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891453.html#9891453 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 10:42pm

but one of the guys gave us that wonderful food thread. Heart

im still drooling over chicken tacos Unhappy

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 22:42:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891453.html#9891453 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : cool beans ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891032.html#9891032 Author: SensitiveSwag
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 8:21pm

cool beans Cool

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 20:21:57 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9891032.html#9891032 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : SensitiveSwag wrote:Would...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890817.html#9890817 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 7:04pm

SensitiveSwag wrote:

Would that make the women that bash the men who frequent this site zesty as well? Confused

Ummmm NO!

Anyway, to establish some clarity for those who addressed the male presence situation (Jr., James, and a few female posters).....

It would be safe to assume that most of the BHM women are not against amale presence on this site.

The types of posts/comments some of these guys leave (including snide remarks against Black women, instigating, and other antics) is what several Black women on this site take issue with (do searches and you'll see!)

Yes, there are some simping mofos on this site. It's obvious... Point blank.

I should have prefaced my previous post with "some guys" so it would not have been interpreted as a general comment.

At the end of the day I probably wouldn't be into a dude who is a regular (key term) on a female hair site.

THE.END!

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 19:04:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890817.html#9890817 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Junior Jr wrote:yes, pink,...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890761.html#9890761 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 6:43pm

Junior Jr wrote:

yes, pink, name names

jr.

I stand by my statement. Of course not ALL, but it seems to be a trend of male dehydrated simps around (zesty is for another convo).

As far as names are concerned:

I'll start with YOU Jr,...

others included:

James, Coleslaw/Tweetie/Applesauce, Positive K/Shad, Bunz...

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 18:43:56 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890761.html#9890761 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : pinkextra wrote: Real...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890667.html#9890667 Author: SensitiveSwag
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 6:19pm

pinkextra wrote:

Real talk:

I seem to feel that guys who frequent and are pretty much 'permanent fixtures' on female boards/forums are either:

1)Zesty

2) Simping (which is quite thirsty imo)

Would that make the women that bash the men who frequent this site zesty as well? Confused

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 18:19:20 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890667.html#9890667 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Jewelsnyc wrote:and OP you're...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890660.html#9890660 Author: SensitiveSwag
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 6:15pm

Jewelsnyc wrote:

and OP you're not ghey if you are on this forum...

Thank you ma'm Big smile

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 18:15:44 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890660.html#9890660 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : and OP you're not ghey if...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890117.html#9890117 Author: Jewelsnyc
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 2:47pm

and OP you're not ghey if you are on this forum...]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 14:47:32 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890117.html#9890117 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Jewelsnyc wrote:I've never...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890051.html#9890051 Author: James Avery
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 2:08pm

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 14:08:00 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890051.html#9890051 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : yes, pink, name namesjr. ]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890029.html#9890029 Author: Junior Jr
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 1:56pm

yes, pink, name names

jr.

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 13:56:27 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9890029.html#9890029 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : I can see if she saw in your history...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889984.html#9889984 Author: NARSAddict
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 1:34pm

I can see if she saw in your history that there are a lot of homo thug related site and forums but to get extra pressed to see BHM in your web history, she sounds immature as fcuk.
]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 13:34:08 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889984.html#9889984 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : I've never understood why...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889932.html#9889932 Author: Jewelsnyc
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 1:19pm

I've never understood why the women on this site are so against men being here? I mean, it is black HAIR media, it doesn't specify women only so I don't get it

yes women are predominately on the forum, however, men who wish to interact with us and speak on topics of interest, I don't see what the problem is. But you have women on here that are truly bothered...but honestly, this place would be extra boring without the little bit of testosterone that we do have on here...]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 13:19:58 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889932.html#9889932 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : i dont think it makes a guy gay...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889847.html#9889847 Author: Lady ICE
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 12:43pm

i dont think it makes a guy gay for hangin around...if i knew of some mostly male sites...i'd be on...mostly cause im nosey though.
]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 12:43:51 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889847.html#9889847 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : pinkextra wrote: Real...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889634.html#9889634 Author: Jewelsnyc
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 10:58am

pinkextra wrote:

Real talk:

I seem to feel that guys who frequent and are pretty much 'permanent fixtures' on female boards/forums are either:

1)Zesty

2) Simping (which is quite thirsty imo)

Who you talkin bout Pinky...we name names in the 2-thousand & twelve.... Geek

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 10:58:10 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889634.html#9889634 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Real talk:I seem to feel that...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889620.html#9889620 Author: pinkextra
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 29 2012 at 10:49am

Real talk:

I seem to feel that guys who frequent and are pretty much 'permanent fixtures' on female boards/forums are either:

1)Zesty

2) Simping (which is quite thirsty imo)

]]> Mon, 29 Oct 2012 10:49:16 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9889620.html#9889620 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : Does she wear weave or is she...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9887920.html#9887920 Author: sugabanana
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 28 2012 at 4:37pm

Does she wear weave or is she natural. Tell her you got some tips for her to retain length and a good regimen for moisture....

Wait that's way too much info....Just tell her you only come in for the relationship advice.

]]> Sun, 28 Oct 2012 16:37:46 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9887920.html#9887920 <![CDATA[She thinks I'm ghey, what do I do? : SensitiveSwag wrote: purpulicious01...]]> http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9887903.html#9887903 Author: Naturalchick30
Subject: 350141
Posted: Oct 28 2012 at 4:32pm

SensitiveSwag wrote:

purpulicious01 wrote:

Isn't the fact that you are with her enough evidence that you aren't homosexual?

BTW what ARE you doing on BHM?

(FYI: your comments referring to homosexuals as "queer a$$ homo" and "creep" are rude and condescending)

queer a$$ - as in I'm on a women's forum

Homo - as in only ghey's go on a website about black women hair

but I am neither, I just find y'all to be beautiful, insightful African-American women that I can learn a lot from and I can be a good man for her.

Tell her to become a member on bhm lol]]> Sun, 28 Oct 2012 16:32:25 +0000 http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/she-thinks-im-ghey-what-do-i-do_topic350141_post9887903.html#9887903